"The Veterans Outreach Center extends our deepest sympathy James' passing. We acknowledge and are truly grateful for his service to our country,"
In loving memory of
James (Jay) W. Cicero, Jr.
April 4, 1950 - February 9, 2024
James (Jay) W. Cicero, Jr.
Died unexpectedly February 9, 2024 at age 73 from complications of cancer. Predeceased by parents, James W. Cicero, Sr. and Isabel E. Cicero. Survived by sons, Richard W. Cicero and Joseph C. (Greta) Cicero; fiancée, Maureen Mitchell; grandchildren, Kristina (Paul) Conklin, Jonathan Cicero (fiancée, Brianna Dennis), Jared (Naomi) Cicero, Riley Cicero, and Andrew Cicero; great-grandchild, Charlotte Conklin; stepchildren, Melissa (Nathan) Shaw and Benjamin (Stacey) Bruce; siblings, Catherine Cicero, Robert (Eugenia) Cicero, Richard (Kelly) Cicero, Kimberly Austen, Jill Cicero, Paul Cicero (Ernestine Shumaker), Thomas (Terri) Cicero, and Anne-Marie Allen; many stepgrandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends, including lifelong friend Richard Chiverton.
Jay was raised in Leicester, New York, the oldest of nine children. He enlisted in the Air Force in 1969 and served a year in Saigon during the Vietnam War. During his twelve years in the Air Force, both his sons were born and he achieved the rank of Staff Sergeant. After leaving military service, he lived in Texas for several years before returning to Western New York to live closer to family. Throughout his life, Jay was the ultimate "motorhead," with a passion for engines and fast vehicles, from his first Camaro to his beloved Harley Davidson motorcycles. During his recent illness, he took great joy in rebuilding a 1967 Camaro, as well as being with family and the companionship of a new puppy, JJ.
Visitation will be held Sunday, February 18, from 2-6 pm at Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, 1411 Vintage Lane, Rochester. A celebration of Jay's life will be held at Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home on Monday, February 19, at 10 am.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Veterans Outreach Center, 447 South Avenue, Rochester, NY 14620.
Tributes
"Jay was a co-worker, at Frey Heavy Duty/Frey The Wheelman. I have known him, since Kenworth in Henrietta. We have kept friends, since he left Frey. I stopped at Decarolis and Fleetpride, to visit. He was a great friend, that will be missed. Thanks for your friendship Jay. God Bless ! Ron Cicchetti"
" My deepest condolences to the Cicero family. Jay was respected and well-liked by all in the parts industry. He was a friend and mentor to co-workers and customers alike. Jay was also loved by those of us who were lucky enough to get to know him on a personal level. The impact he had on those around him will continue to resonate and we all share in your grief. John Miles "
"I'm very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I worked with him at DeCarolis for 20+ years. He was always kind, and had a fun sense of humor, including some "dad" jokes. Family was very important to him and he will be missed by many. Thinking of his family at this difficult time."
"To the Cicero family, I worked with Jay for 23 years at DeCarolis Truck Rental. What a wonderful man. Always with a smile and wishing you a good day. May he rest in peace. "
"Mr. Jay Cicero was an outstanding man. Him and my father were best friends for a long time. On Saturdays Jay would call my dad and say hey Don what are you up to and my dad would say not much and he would say you wanna go watch the trains. I also remember do some mini train trips with Jay and dad. "
"So sorry to hear of Jay's sudden passing. I will miss his humor and kindness at reunions, and send all my love and prayers to all the Ciceros at this difficult time, but especially to Joey and Ricky for their loss of a great dad. What an impressive legacy he left. Totie Armstrong"
"Sorry for your loss he will be missed. In gods hands he is entrusted. Be at peace "