"Erika I will miss you! I am so blessed to have known you. You have the best family a girl could ask for! God bless them as they go through this time of grieving. Until we meet again! ?? Laurie DiLorenzo"
In loving memory of
Erika Alana Daugherty
June 25, 1990 - January 9, 2024
Erika Alana Daugherty
Spencerport: Passed away on January 9, 2024. Erika is predeceased by her grandfather, Arturo Paratore & uncle, Anthony Paratore. She is survived by her parents, Daniel & Enza Daugherty; brothers, David & Jonathan; grandparents, Raymond & Carol Daugherty, Velia Paratore; aunts & uncles, Filippo & Christine Paratore, Joseph Paratore, John Paratore, Jim & Becky Clementson, Mark & Jennifer Mackey, Julie Daugherty; cousins, Ashleigh Allenbaugh, Anthony Paratore, Sabrina Groescup, Alessia Paratore & Alec Travis-Daugherty.
Erika was a fun-loving, honor student, dancer, and athlete, loved by many whose life took a dramatic turn when she suffered a traumatic brain injury when she was 13, which dramatically changed her life. She lived the next 20 years profoundly disabled, fighting numerous life-threatening health conditions, but living a full, happy life, surrounded by loving family and caretakers, engaging in music, art, yoga, physical therapy, swim, massage, meditation, and even dance. While she was unable to speak, she had a profound ability to communicate, to bring out the best in the people around her and to attract the best people. As her health worsened, her spirit remained undaunted, and she became an inspiration to many people around the world. Even at the end of her time here, she defied the odds, staying longer than thought possible in order to say goodbye to more of her family and friends. She will be remembered by so many for her infectious laugh, her compassion, her courage, her strength, and her love for life. Her loss will be immense, but her spirit will remain with us forever.
Erika's life story will be shared during visitation, 4:00-8:00 pm on Friday, January 12th at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated 10:00 am on Saturday, January 13th at St. John the Evangelist Church, 55 Martha St. in Spencerport. Entombment in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Abilities Movement at https://abilitiesmovement.org/
Tributes
"dan enza david jon and family i am so sorry for the loss of erika thnak you for letting me be part of her life you all did an amazing job i miss her so much she is my true angel. thanks jess h "
"The love Tony and I witnessed between Dan, Enza and Erika was abundant, fierce and filled with grace. Dan and Enza took exceptional care of Erika and made sure she had all she needed and more. I will forever be in awe of them. Erika, a true warrior princess! Her determination, perseverance, and strength left me in awe. Heaven gained a beautiful angel. Tony and I will forever carry our memories of Erika in our hearts. Rest in paradise sweet girl. "
"Dan, Enza, David and Jonathan, Through God's love, I pray that He grant you the comfort that He alone can give. My heart is with you. Rest in peace Erika. "
"Enza, Dan, David & Johnny, I always remember Erika as a beautiful angel and I can still remember the sound of her giggle. I will forever cherish the memories of her. It was an honor and a blessing to know and love her. Keeping you all in my prayers . Deepest sympathy, Rosemarie Paratore "
"Our thoughts and prayers go out to each and everyone of you. RIP Erika. Erika had you as parents and you gave so much unconditional love to her. Love The DeMetsenaere?s. "
"Dan, Enza, David and Jonathan. I am so sorry to your loss of beautiful Erika. She was a fighter and met every battle, every struggle with strength and determination that left us in awe. Thank you, Erika, for the inspiration and love you shared throughout your life. I wish you all comfort and peace knowing that our dear Erika is in a much better place where she can run and dance pain free. God Bless you all. Kim Brosius "
"Dan, Enza, David & Jonathan, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Erika was one special young lady. Dan, I have followed your FB posts and you have such a great attitude about life! Your entire family amazed me through all of this. I hope you will take comfort knowing Erika is in what I believe is a better place and pain free. Free to dance all the time now. My heart aches for all of you. Keep Erika in your memories. God Bless the entire family! David & Jo-Al Lettau"