"I?m so upset that Sophia has passed. We had lots of friendly conversations outside, as neighbors and friends. I am devastated and shocked that she is gone. I did not know she was sick. We had so many fun conversations about different things. I feel so sad that she will not get to see her children grow up And I feel sad that they will not have her in their lives. This is just tragic and heartbreaking. Being outside in the nice weather and chatting with her ? Things will never be the same now in this neighborhood. She was beautiful and nice and kind and friendly. Sending love and blessings and peace to her family. Jayne Miller"
In loving memory of
Sophia A. Sheffer
April 18, 1983 - November 30, 2023
Sophia Alexis Sheffer was born to Lambert and Geraldine Blake on April 18, 1983 in Rochester, NY. She entered eternal rest on November 30, 2023, after a short but courageous battle with lung cancer.
Sophia graduated from the School of the Arts in Rochester, NY. She was employed at Lifetime Assistance and was also a professional homemaker. Sophia was a selfless, dedicated mother of four children with a beautiful spirit and personality. She loved gardening, decorating her home during the holidays, reading books, and doing creative writing. Another of Sophia's favorite things to do was visit the summer festivals in Rochester and the New York State Fair, enjoying the amazing food choices.
Sophia was preceded in death by her maternal and paternal grandparents and a host of aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Sophia is survived by her loving husband, Michael Sheffer, and her four children: Brooklyn, Terrell, Hailey, and Laila of Rochester, NY; two brothers, Cory and Tryik Blake, both of Rochester, NY; her sister-in-law Ashley (Kyle) Hartman. She also leaves behind special friends Latifah Wilson, Kevin O'Connor, Michael Dionese, Artis Miller, and her snuggly dog Scrappy.
Sophia was filled with love in her heart and God in her soul. "It is never goodbye; I will see you later".
Sophia's life story will be shared during her calling hours on Saturday, December 9th from 2-3 pm at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane, 14626, followed by her funeral service also at the funeral home from 3-4:30 pm.
Tributes
"We are saddened to hear of the passing of our dear grandneice Sophia Alexis Sheffer. She was such a beautiful young woman, blessed by God with grace and favor. We share the loss of her presence with her parents, Lambert and Geraldine, as well as her devoted husband Michael and her four children. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult season and for all the years to come. Love you dearly...Elder Uncle Leon and Aunt Jackie Blake "
"From Aunt: Mike the children and the Sheffer Family. Psalm 91 He Shall Cover Thee with His Feathers, and Under His Wings Shalt thou Trust: His Truth Shall Br Thy Shield and Buckler."
"Dear Sophia: I will be forever grateful for the times we spent together, especially this past year! I wish we had more time together, but God wanted you home with him first. I will miss you forever beautiful, but I know one day I will see you again! Love your favorite cousin, Nadia W. "
"I also met Sophia at the Roc Ladies Meetup that I host with my mom in our home. I haven?t know Sophia long, but her joyful personality was contagious! She was so friendly, vulnerable, and always keeping it real while shining her faith at the same time. That can be hard to do! Her countenance was always shining and seemed like she really loved people well. I am so sad she is gone, but I know we will have eternity together. "
"Due to her post on the Nextdoor App, I met Sophia over a year ago. She inspired my daughter and I to start a women's group which we named the ROC Ladies Meet-up. This group has enabled many of us to make new friends. Sophia came to several of our activities, and became a special friend. She was upbeat, and always eager to share her faith in Christ. She was open and honest about her struggles, which is a model for me. She always had praise to God, even in the midst of hard things. And she was a lot of fun! When she received her cancer diagnosis, she told me that God had shown her it was for His glory. Her prayer was for everyone in her family and group of friends to come to know Jesus in a personal way, just as she did. I was privileged to visit her three times during her final weeks of life her on earth. She maintained her sweetness and love throughout suffering pain and weakness. What a joy it has been for me to know her over this past year! Although I miss her, I have peace in knowing she is with our Lord and Savior. She was ready for eternity due to her commitment to Him. Someday I will join her in the Presence of God and we will meet again."
"Sophia made you feel like you'd been friends forever the moment you first met. She had a way of being open and vulnerable and genuine and bubbly all at the same time! I met her at the ROC ladies group, which she was the initial inspiration for, and while i only spent time with her at a few of their meet-ups, I am sad to know she will not be at any more events. One time she saw me in the store and shouted out a happy hello from several aisles away before i even saw her. I am so sorry for your family's loss, but rest assured she is joyously worshipping her Lord and Savior in eternity! May God comfort all of you in this very difficult time. "