"Dave left a lasting impression on me, taught me lessons I still carry to this day. I am now 29 years old playing professionally in Europe. I was asked about coaches that made an impact on my life and the first person that came to my mind was him. Dave is a rare person, coaches and people are hard to find like him. I grew up with Dave as my coach, a blessing and experience that shaped me. He always pushed us, even when we didn?t want to, because he cared and wanted more for all of his players. Sometimes it was not always a popular decision but he made difficult ones for his players so we could be better players but also better people. He always will remain a special place in my heart and inspiration in my career. That little girl he pushed to be better and encouraged she was so much more and that she could do it- says thank you Dave. I?m grateful to have reconnected with you in the past years and you cannot be forgotten. Thank you Dave. For everything. May you rest in paradise. -Erica Cunningham "
In loving memory of
David Paul Shaffer
December 6, 1962 - May 21, 2022
David Paul Shaffer passed away unexpectedly on May 21, 2022, in Phoenix, AZ. Born in Oakland, CA on December 6, 1962. Proceeded in death by his father(s): Chris, Bill & Jim. He is survived by his wife Aki, mother Mary Munion, brothers Don (Cheryl), Dwayne (Lara), stepbrothers Bill and Nick. Half-sister Delina, stepsisters Crystal and Tracy. Son Dustin (Taneya), stepdaughter Samantha, stepson Donnie, grandchildren and numerous extended family.
While living in Japan in 2013, David met and fell in love with his beautiful wife Aki. He coached and played soccer all over the world.
He coached so many young players, from Santa Rosa United, Montgomery High School, Santa Rosa JC, Sonoma State University, Total Football in Tokyo Japan, Capital Soccer Club in Pennsylvania and Real Salt Lake in Arizona. He had an amazing impact on many lives. He cared deeply about his players on and off the field.
Beloved by many, he was known for his quick wit and non-stop humor, energy, and enthusiasm on and off the soccer field. He would light up a room whenever he would enter, and you couldn't go anywhere without someone knowing David. He was and forever will be the life of our party.
Celebrations of David's life will be held on Sunday, June 5th at 3pm at The Friedman Center, Santa Rosa, CA and Monday, June 13th at 5pm at Saguaro High School, Scottsdale, AZ.
Tributes
"Dave coached our son Austin Meyer at Santa Rosa United and was a big influence in Austin's development as a player and as a young man. They stayed in touch and our family always have fond memories (and some crazy one too!) of our time with Dave's team, the Boca Juniors. Those were great years. Pam & Leroy Meyer"
"May you Rest In Peace! You and Aki have always been amazing friends and I?ve loved every moment. Though hearts are very heavy, prayers for comfort and peace over Aki and your family will remain. We love you and will make sure we take care of your flower, Aki. "