"Our deepest sympathy to you & your family. Jim & Joyce Roberts"
Services will be held at 10:30 A.M. at Ramsey Reformed Church rural Titonka, IA on Saturday, March 26, 2022. The family will receive visitors for one hour prior to the service and after the service when lunch will be served. In lieu of flowers, donations in Ramona's honor can be made to Alzheimer's Association (alz.org), Ramsey Reformed Church or a charity of your choice.
Ramona Mae (Aukes) Heyer was born May 16, 1932, to Ted and Elsie Aukes and raised in Buffalo Center, Iowa. She attended country school as a child, graduated from BCHS in 1949, and went on to LaJames School of Hairstyling in Mason City. Ramona married the love of her life, Harvey Heyer in 1950 and together they made their home in Titonka. On March 14, 2022, Ramona, at the age of 89, went to be with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Ramona's life revolved around her family, home, and community. Her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren brought her so much joy and laughter. She treasured each and every moment spent with them. Ramona enjoyed gardening, hosting holidays, cooking, making candy, playing cards, doing crossword puzzles, and playing games with her grandkids. She loved getting together for coffee and a homemade cookie (chocolate chip or coconut oatmeal being the favorites). You could always count on her to stop whatever she was doing and visit when you sat down with her at the kitchen table.
Ramona was a cheerleader and in choir in high school. She enjoyed all sports, which was a good thing with her kids and grandkids involved in all of them including band and choir. She owned her own beauty shop in Wesley, IA when she was first married, but when she started having children, she became a full-time work at home Mom. Ramona loved her large vegetable garden but mostly her flowers; roses, peonies and lilacs being her favorites. She loved spending time at the family cabin on Spirit Lake to enjoy family time, the water, and the birds that would visit. She enjoyed both the quiet times and when the cabin was filled to the rafters with "whoever can come". Ramona was an active member of Ramsey Reformed Church and Christian Women's Club blessed by the fellowship and many friendships.
Ramona loved and will be missed beyond words by her children; Steven and Joleen Heyer (Titonka), Craig and Judy Heyer (Titonka), Ronda Heyer (Ankeny), Connie and Larry Doughan (Orange City), Mike and Denise Heyer (Titonka), and Linda Raney (Ankeny). Also, by her 16 grandchildren, and 36 (plus 2 on the way) great grandchildren.
She is survived by her brother and sister-in-law, Roger and Carol Aukes (Buffalo Center), sisters-in-law, Donna Aukes (Woodland, CA), Florence Heyer (Titonka), Lois Heyer (Kansas City, KS), Kathy Heyer (Manchester, IA) and Jenny Heyer (Altamont, MO) as well as many dear nieces, nephews and wonderful friends.
Meeting her at heaven's gate, whom she has missed so much, her loving husband, Harvey; her parents Ted and Elsie Aukes; her sister Betty Heyer; her brothers; Edwin, Harvey, Kenny, and baby Richard Aukes; her sisters-in law Iona Aukes and Mary Aukes Smith; her father and mother-in-law George and Gesina Heyer; sister-in-law Marilyn Heyer; brothers-in-law Alfred, Lawrence, Gordon, Cecil, and James Heyer; nephews Kevin, Kirk, and Keith Heyer.
Ramona's physical presence will be greatly missed, but she will live on forever in the loving memories and the hearts of all who knew her. "Our Family is a circle of strength and love. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every crisis faced together makes the circle stronger." - Unknown
We as a family want to thank everyone at the Titonka Care Center, Windsor Manor, Good Samaritan Society - Algona and Kossuth Regional Health Center in Algona for the outstanding care she received in her last years. Your compassion and love gave us all great peace. Thank you.
"Our deepest sympathy to you & your family. Jim & Joyce Roberts"
"Sympathy to everyone. May God wrap his arms around each of you & give you peace??"
"To the family, our deepest sympathy. Your Mom was a special friend to our Mom (Lena). Losing a parent leaves a hole in the heart but may the hole be filled with wonderful memories. RIP Romana. "
"My thoughts & prayers are with the whole family at this time of Loss. Ramona will be missed."
"To the whole family, your Mom was such a nice and kind lady. She was a wonderful friend and neighbor to my Mom. She always made sure her hair was just perfect and oh don\'t forget her earrings. You all have our sympathy. ??????"
"Sincere condolences to Craig and Judy and the entire Heyer family.God?s peace be with you all."
"I have missed you so since you had to leave us at windsor manor....we always had such great conversations over coffee, you always had good memories of your family to tell , I enjoyed caring for you and meeting your family when visiting...and your singing voice was so very good ! You will be greatly missed and remembered always...MONIE"
"Ramona - I read about your life and I was amazed by all the things you did! There were so many things I didn\'t know about you. I\'m so glad that I got to meet you and happy you\'re in heaven with your husband Harvey. Rest in peace, Ramona. You\'ll be missed. "
"To Ramona?s family, I send my sympathy, prayers and hugs. Ramona was such a wonderful friend with so many fond memories of times spent with her. May she Rest In Peace. "
"When I saw this it broke my heart. She was an amazing woman. I loved having coffee with her every morning. I learned so much from her. I also enjoyed getting to know her family. Peace be with you all. Jill Zirbel "
"Ramona was one of the sweetest and kindest people I\'ve ever met. I feel fortunate to have been part of her journey. Love and prayers to the entire family."
"Sorry for your loss! I pray you are able to find peace knowing she is at peace! "
"Dear Steve, Jolene and the rest of the family I am sorry for your loss. JoAnn McCloskey"