"A wonderfiul man whose smile professed his outward love of life and of all people, which is what God asks of us all. He has earned his reward for such a life on this earth, to be with Jesus and His Father in Heaven. All the Nuccitelli family has been and will continue to be in my AQ family's prayers. "
In loving memory of
John F. Nuccitelli (Mr. Nuch)
April 3, 1937 - January 30, 2022
WEBSTER - Passed away on January 30, 2022. Predeceased by his parents, John & Carmella Nuccitelli; brother, Bob Nuccitelli. John is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 63 years, Diane (Cravotta) Nuccitelli; sons, Chris Nuccitelli, Michael (Kathleen) Nuccitelli & John (Lisa) Nuccitelli; grandchildren, Gina, Ashley (Chris) Skipper, Michael Nuccitelli Jr, Alexandra (Brian) Whelan, Olivia, Julia & Adam; great-grandchild, Sloan Skipper; brother, Larry (Nancy) Nuccitelli; brother-in-law, Lou (Linda) Cravotta; sister-in-law, Mary Ellen (Mary Carol Schaedel) Cravotta. Many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
John was a tool maker that worked in many shops. In 1965 he started Nationwide Tool and Die with his brother Bob. They operated their family business until 1999. John also served his country in the US Coast Guard Auxiliary. Throughout his life, John focused his time on many philanthropic endeavors. Some of the notable examples were the Seneca Park Zoo, International Wild Water Fowl Association and Aquinas Institute. For 45 years John was the driving force and heart and soul of the Aquinas Institute Hockey Team. He was the Mr. Hockey of the Aquinas program. Mr. Nuch is known and loved by everyone who ever played the sport. Most importantly he was humble, loved his family deeply and always placed others before himself.
During his time with the Aquinas Hockey program, John started the first Section V Senior Hockey game and played a critical role in creating the JV Hockey program in Monroe County, as well as starting the school's lacrosse program. He also started the Sports Booster Club at Aquinas, a group that would one day be responsible for the fundraising and construction of the new gymnasium. For these reasons (and many more) John became a member of the Aquinas Hall of Fame.
John excelled in many leadership positions. He always gave back to the community and was involved in philanthropic efforts that included the building of the veterinary clinic at Seneca Park Zoo and being president of Italian Charities. John also acted as the President of the Rochester Tooling and Machining Association, the Brooklea Country Club, and the Webster Dunkin Donuts Gang. When he wasn't busy fulfilling these roles, John tended to an extensive collection of animals, waterfowl, koi fish, Bonsai, Japanese gardens, and orchids. He was an active hobbyist, too, building a life-sized diorama for his G scale trains in conjunction with the Genesee Valley Train Club and curating an extensive collection of Department 56 villages. John loved watching the New York Yankees, playing golf, and going fishing with his buddies.
John's life story will be shared during visitation, 2:00-4:00 pm and 6:00-8:00 pm on Friday, February 4th at the funeral home. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 am on Saturday at St. Rita's Church, 1008 Maple Dr, Webster, NY 14580. The service will be live-streamed and may be watched at www.saintritawebster.org. Entombment in White Haven Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in John's name to the Aquinas Institute, 1127 Dewey Ave, Rochester, NY 14613.
Tributes
"The Lewandowski Family was so sad to hear the news that Mr. Nuch had passed. There are countless fond memories of golf matches, Cape Vincent and Nuch's Alibi... and all of the trips the parents took together back in the good old days. He was a very wonderful man. We hope that they are all having as much fun together as they used to. "
"I am very sad to hear of Mr. Nuch passing. As a hockey referee for 35 years I got to know him very well. I always looked forward to him walking in the refs locker room at Lakeshore to say hello before a game and to check on us after a game to make sure we were all ok. He was a class act always and I have lots of good memories of him. God bless you Mr. Nuch and your family as well."
"On behalf of the entire Montgomery family, I send our sincere sympathy for the loss of our dear friend. John was a great man, a very generous man, and someone who was very easy to love. I'll always and forever be grateful for John getting me and my dad involved in coaching the Aquinas Hockey Team and the 9 years we spent together building a great team and a first class organization. Our family's prayers go out to the entire Nuccitelli family, as you mourn the loss of your loved one, and we all pray that Mr. Nuch will realize his hope for eternal life in God's heavenly kingdom through his faith and belief in Jesus Christ. God bless my wonderful friend's soul, as he sleeps now in peace. Dave Montgomery"
"Mr. Nuch you will be missed. So many fond memories over the years. My sympathies to the entire Nuccitelli family. John was a great man and you all should remain proud of him forever. "
"The Nuccitelli family is in our prayers at this time. Nuch was a big part of the Aquinas hockey family. John was a wonderful man who put so much time into Aquinas. He will never be forgotten. It was my pleasure to know and work along side of Nuch. Aquinas Proud."
"Mr Nuch!! You are a legend !! Your kindness will never be forgotten!! You made my sons experience at AQ a memorable one ! Playing hockey for you was a privilege.. the trip to Italy was a lifetime memory and a experience he will never forget !! Rest In Peace !! My thought and prayers to your beautiful family !! Phyllis Depetres , Anthony Depetres #9 class of 2014"
"I was saddened to hear on his passing. Being part of the high school hockey family his commitment and support of Aguinas and the entire program will be sadly missed. Jim McLean Gates Chili& Section V Hockey"
"It was my great pleasure to get to know and work with John when I served as the Executive Director of the Seneca Park Zoo Society in the 1990s . John was such a warm and genuine individual and a true joy to spend time with. His sincere commitment to the Zoo and its mission was manifested by his dedicated service on the Society's Board of Trustees which I greatly appreciated. I extend my sincere condolences to Diane and the rest of his loving family. ~ Gayle Rathbun"
"Diane and Family, my deepest and sincerest sympathy to you on the loss of John. He was my DD Coffee Club partner and we sat across from one another each day. I enjoyed his stories and experiences as well as his travel adventures. I was blessed to have him as a friend and will greatly miss him. God bless his soul. Dick Weldgen"
"Diane and Family, we are saddened on the loss of John. He was such a wonderful man. Our Prayers and Thoughts are with you and your family during this sad time. May He rest in eternal peace. Jerry Prince, and family"
"My Dear Mr. Nuch , not only has the hockey world suffered a tremendous loss but everyone that knew you! It was an honor being one of the founding members of JV hockey in Rochester. Without you it would not exist. Your kindness and generosity shines through your family. You taught your humbleness to Jay who coached my son and I so enjoyed our times cheering on the team together. May you rest in Heaven and your memory live on forever. Elena Epping and family"
"My condolences to the family of John. What a selfless, kind man. I envy heaven today. They have Mr. Nuch on their team and we have his memory."
"Oh Mr. Nuch... So many good memories of a good man. Praying for y'all"
"My deepest condolences to Mrs. Nuccitelli, Chris, Michael, John and to their entire family. Mr. & Mrs. Nuccitelli were so gracious in welcoming me and my family to their home. Mr. Nuccitelli is one very special person with a heart of gold and he has passed that on to his amazing sons. The years have separated us, but I will always remember with the utmost love and gratitude their kindness and the fun we had. Rest in Peace Mr. Nuch....you always made me smile!! JudieLynn"
"Condolences to Diane and the Nuccitelli family. John was the kindest person I ever knew. I worked with him for many years as he served on the Brook-Lea Country Club Board of Governers. He had a way of making things possible and interesting in a very humble way. I will always cherish the times I spent with he and Diane. My heart is sad today but Rest In Peace my good friend. You have earned it."
"Wishing Ashly and her family comfort in their time of loss. From her pharmacy family at Unity Hospital."
"Sending warm condolences to the whole family. John left a remarkable impact on his family and friends. Peace be with you. Antonia Orlando"
"Sending our sympathy and prayers of comfort to Diane and family. "
"Sincere condolences to the Nuccitelli family. "
"My favorite childhood memories are of the Nuccitelli family...roaming the woods with my sister and our best buddies, Chris and Michael, making up stories, plays, adventures, swimming in the pool. Johnny and Diane's home felt like my second home. As an adult, he shared his love of trains and exotic animals with my children. I always think of Johnny as a kind and gentle man. Hugging you all in my heart and wishing you peace and love as you hold onto the memories you've all shared through the years. Lisa DiTucci Maynard"
"I?ve known the Nuccitelli family for 40+ years since I met Diane in theatre. We became close friends and shared many memorable moments which many times included John and other family members. John was a gentleman and a gentle man and always interested in others. He and my husband enjoyed each other?s company and we all shared many laughs. John always welcomed me into all their homes with a smile and I could always make him laugh. We have all lost a wonderful friend and presence in our lives. Good night sweet Prince, parting is such sweet sorrow. I will hold the memory of you in my heart forever. Peace, deep peace. Diane Chevron Wright"