"Judge Calvaruso was a great jurist and an even better person. It is without exaggeration to say that without the privilege of knowing him, I would not be who I am today, as he was my mentor and my friend. The world is a lesser place without him, but his impact continues through the countless lives he positively touched."
In loving memory of
Honorable Edmund A. Calvaruso
April 17, 1944 - January 12, 2022
Honorable Edmund A. Calvaruso
*******Due to inclement weather, Edmund's Funeral Mass has been CANCELLED for today********Funeral Mass will be celebrated tomorrow, Tuesday, January 18th at 11:00 AM ***
Greece: Passed away January 12, 2022. Retired NYS Supreme Court Judge and Monroe County Surrogate Court Judge. He was a graduate of Aquinas Institute ('62), St. John Fisher College ('66) and St. John's University Law School ('69).
The true measure of a man is not the treasure he has accrued not the awards he has received, but the footprints he has left in people's lives. Ed walked through life leaving positive imprints on everyone he met. He looked to help others by lifting them up through mentoring, coaching, teaching and encouraging them to reach beyond what they thought they could do. Ed achieved this through volunteering in numerous community organizations, youth sports leagues, Italian community groups, church committees and political groups. He welcomed people with his engaging personality and took joy in his daily encounters with peers, family, friends and even strangers. Everyone was equal in his eyes.
During his celebrated legal career, Ed was responsible for digitizing the case management system for the Monroe County Surrogate Courts, a change that was later adopted statewide and greatly contributed to the efficiency and transparency of the court system. Ed also served his community as a Justice of Supreme Court for the 7th Judicial District of New York, working to expedite the disposition of cases and streamline proceedings of the court. In his time outside of work, Ed acted as an active member, lecturer, and board member for numerous organizations pertaining to the legal profession, educational institutions, and Italian cultural tradition.
Ed is predeceased by his parents Thomas and Angela Calvaruso; brother Francis (Annette) Calvaruso Esq.; father-in-law John Wheeler and infant nephew Aiden Wheeler. He is survived by his loving wife, Joanne (Wheeler) Calvaruso; children Andrea Esq. and Matthew Perron, Dr. Francine Calvaruso, Todd and Stephanie Calvaruso; grandchildren, TJ, Cody and Savannah Calvaruso; mother-in-law Carole Wheeler; brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, nephews, nieces, beloved cousins and friends. A special thank you to the staff of ICU at Unity Hospital. Even while working under grueling conditions you took the time to offer compassionate care to Ed and his family. True heroes.
Ed's life story will be shared during visitation, 2:00 - 6:00 pm on Sunday, January 16th at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane. ***His Funeral Mass will be celebrated 11:00 am on Tuesday, January 18th at Holy Cross Church, 4492 Lake Avenue. Please remember that masks are required for all services. The service will be live streamed at https://holycrossrochester.org/. Contributions in his memory can be made to Holy Cross School, 4488 Lake Ave, Rochester, NY 14612 or Aquinas Institute, 1127 Dewey Ave, Rochester, NY 14613
Tributes
"Dear Joanne, Andrea, Todd, & Francine, So sorry to hear of your loss. Ed had a kind heart, subtle yet stinging wit, and a truly esteemed career, but what I remember most about Ed is his love for all of you ~ very fond remembrances of his life well lived. Wishing you much love, many prayers, peaceful memories, and most sincere condolences. Mary Meyers"
"Please accept our deepest sympathy . Honorable Judge Ed Calvaruso will be remembered for his warm smile and friendly greeting. He enjoyed "Giving Back" ....I will always be grateful to him for helping to start a non for profit for me, pro bono. He was so kind and sincere. May memories of happy times you shared with this good man live forever in your hearts and may "Our Good Lord" grnt Ed eternal peace and may His perpetual light shine upon him. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. RIP in Heaven Ed. With Deppest Sympathy, Tony & Patty Liccione"
"Dear Joanne my deepest sympathy on your lost, Ed was well respected, I'am sure he is playing basketball in Hevean with Jim, prays for both of them."
"Dear Joanne, What a great guy Ed was. What a life well lived. He will be greatly missed. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Peace, Tim Boland "
"Peter Casartelli Dear Joanne and family, My heartfelt condolences to you in the loss of a great man. I was a classmate and friend of Ed?s at Aquinas. He was always there for me to help in any way. His kindness and love of family and friends will never be forgotten. Ed will be greatly missed. "
"Joanne and family, Louie and I were so very sorry to hear about Ed. Great memories of building the house in Greece with you. Ed was truly a great guy and will be missed by so many people. We will be praying for you during this very sad time."
"Joanne and family, Sending love and prayers from Albany. I have fond memories of Ed from my childhood and stories my mom, Ronnie, would share of her beloved first cousin. As an adult, I enjoyed catching up with Ed during visits back to Rochester. Always kind, funny and across the miles and years, family. With love, Cindy Gentile"
"Our deepest condolences to the Calvaruso Family on the Judge?s passing. He was a great person and Judge. He will be missed.. Your Family will be in our prayers. Frank & Jeanne Fedele"
"Dear Joann and Family, The last time had seen Ed was at the swearing in ceremony for Elena Cariola. I was passing by the table he was sitting at and he hollered "hay cugino" as I was passing, I spoke briefly with him that day and now wish I took more time to do so. We were second cousins and everyone I knew in the Italian community always spoke highly of him and what a great guy he was. I know he will be missed by all the people he knew. God Bless You All. Sam Simone "
"I was saddened to hear of his passing. He was a wonderful man and excellent judge. My condolenses to his wife and family. Prayers and blessings!"
"Rest In Peace, Brother. It is fortunate that the AQ '62 classmates got together via Zoom in time for us to see and hear Ed last year. Of all the accomplished men in our class, Doctors, Professors, Counselors, good men all--It was Ed who went the farthest. Some of us chaired departments; he sat on the Bench as a Judge. Some of us are physicians who heal people, he streamlined the arcane court system at home and then statewide. I'll always remember Ed's positive outlook, whether in Latin or English class, or on the playing field. In the great beyond--where Ed now looks out for us all--if he pleads our case, we'll all get to heaven. Lillian and I were fortunate to spend time with Ed in person at our 45th reunion. How quickly the 60th has come. How swiftly life passes. "
"Deepest condolences, Joanne. So very sorry for your loss. Such a good man. Such a profound force for good in our community. Sending lots of love."
"Dear Mrs. Calvaruso and family: so sorry to read of the Judge's passing. He was always a gentleman and it was always a pleasure appearing before him, Deborah A. Indivino"
"Joanne may you and family find some comfort in the fond memories you and we were all fortunate to have of such a wonderful compassionate person great Judge and friend wishing you and the family peace and good health in the coming years Jack and Bridget York"
"Our condolences to the Calvaruso family. Fred practiced law in Spencerport for 50 years and had numerous contacts with Ed in his position as Surrogate Court Judge where he found him to be knowledgeable and compassionate. Fred & Rosanne Holbrook"
"We are so sorry for your loss, Joanne and family. Ed was such a wonderful person, always so warm and friendly. We remember the fun times in the old neighborhood! May you be comforted by special memories."
"A wonderful person and Judge. Rest in Peace. "
"Joanne & Family, I'm truly saddened to read of Ed's passing. He was truly a wonderful & true friend. Keeping you all in my prayers. May he R.I.P. Angela Nalbone"
"Joanne & family, I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your beautiful husband and father. It?s been quite some time, but I used to bump into him sometimes at the grocery store, and he would always inquire about my mom? such a thoughtful man. ? Lisa (D?Angelo) Mazzeo"
"I always say Edmond was my cousin, but in reality he was my Uncle Tony?s cousin. My FAVORITE memory was staying at my Uncles apartment, going through the ?secret door? to Aunt Babes apartment. He was always a sweet guy who played with me and my cousin Roseanne. We would slide down the stair banister at Aunt Babes and he would catch us. He was so patient then and patient throughout his life. Since he was young, he has been a wonderful, kind man!!! He will be truly missed! Bob and I both send our love and condolences to Joanne and their families. "
"Joanne, We send prayers for comfort to you and your family on the passing of a great man, jurist and friend. He will be missed by so many."
"I was the Monroe County Sheriffs deputy that was assigned to Judge Calvaruso both in supreme and surrogate courts for over 10 years, In that time our relationship went from Judge and Deputy to trusted friends, he had a heart of gold and never turned anyone away who was in need of assistance, advice or a shoulder to learn on. He honored a persons loyalty and honesty as did those who came to see him daily. I was extremely saddened at his passing, I know he will be dearly missed, I will miss our lunch?s and speaking with him, my sincere condolences and prayers to his wife Joanne and his entire family,,, RIP your honor you?re with God now!! Bernie Giliberti ( Ret MCSO deputy)"
"There is a particular hole in my heart that will never be filled. Rest easy my dear friend. Not only did you win the race, you set the bar. Dave Fisher "
"Ever since I was little he called me 007 because my initials are OO. He would always let me sit in his chair when he was out of his office (even after I pressed the emergency button and sent a bunch of officers in panic). He was family to mine for so many years and always showed love like I was one of his own. You will be truly missed. Love, 007 "
"We were saddened to learn of the Judge's passing. Always the gentleman, with fine conversation at Holy Cross and wherever our paths crossed... May you be consoled by the promise of the Resurrection. Patty & Ed Giblin"
"Joanne and all of Ed's family, Ed was such a wonderful person inside and out. He helped anyone he could. A very caring person. But.. the biggest ballbuster there ever was. Prayers for all . To know him was to love him. Gonna miss you cuz. Love you? Give my momma a big hug . I know she was there to welcome you ??"