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In loving memory of
Robert Benedict
April 14, 1972 - June 10, 2009
Name: Robert F. Benedict
Life Dates: 4/14/1972 - 6/10/2009
City Of Birth: Rochester, NY
Pre-deceased by
Predeceased by his grandparents, Frank Rose (Bovenzi) DelVecchio.
History
He is survived by his mother, Madeline (DelVecchio) Benedict; father, Alan Benedict of Florida; sister, Rosemarie Paratore; nephew, Anthony Paratore; uncle aunt, George (Carolyn) DelVecchio; cousins, Frank DelVecchio, Kim DelVecchio Hart, Bryan Eric Hilts; several cousins and many friends.
Donations
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Robert's Memory to the North Andover YMCA, 165 Haverille Street, Andover, MA 01810 or Camp Good Days and Special Times, Inc. 1332 Pittsford-Mendon Rd., Mendon, NY 14506-9732.
Services
BARTOLOLMEO PEROTTO Funeral Home, Inc. 1411 Vintage Lane (between 390 Long Pond Rd.) where Robert's Visitation will be on Monday from 4-8 PM. All are invited to attend Robert's Funeral Mass on Tuesday at 9:30 AM at St. Theodore's Church (168 Spencerport Rd.) Interment in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.
Additional Information
Bobby was a Team Director with the North Andover YMCA in Andover, MA. He enjoyed being a Team Counselor and he was very active with Camp Good Days and Special Times as a camper, counselor, instructor and worker. He was a 1990 graduate of Aquinas Institute and an MCC Graduate and then continued on to receive his Bachelor's Degree in Recreation Management from Brockport. He worked in California and Clearwater, FL.
Bobby liked to golf and enjoyed camping and hiking. He liked the ropes course and playing poker with his buddies. He enjoyed a cold beer and just being outdoors. He loved being with family and friends and especially enjoyed holidays, specifically Christmas and his Memorial Day Weekend trips. He really loved being a part of his nephew Anthony's life. He was loved by everyone whose life he touched.
Tributes
"Corinne Lippa-Zajac Relation to Deceased: Friend Dearest Friends, I am saddened to learn of the passing of Robert. I will always remember and cherish the fun times we had with my son, Rick Nawrocki on Nisa Lane. He was a wonderful man. My deepest condolences, Corinne Lippa-Zajac The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips"
"Gina Faggiano Rob & I dated my sophomore year of High school. He was a senior at Aquanis, I went to Mercy. I even went to his senior ball with him. We reconnected years later while going to SUNY Brockport. Only a few months ago I tried to find him on facebook and google, not knowing he had moved out of state. For some reason he had been on my mind. Words can not express how sorry I am for your family's loss. He was always such a wonderful man. He was truly my first love. And we all know we never forget those. I wish I had reconnected with him before he passed away. He is now and always will be in my prayers and thoughts. May God Bless Him and the family always. With Deepest Sympathy, Gina Faggiano The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips"
"Karen Guillen Relation to Deceased: Friend Bobby I remember the times we use to play ping pong lol I hit you in your eye and all the times you kept me company because I didn't wanna go home. I remember the last time I saw you in the hospital you were still funny as always and you never let anything stop you from being yourself. A person like you is hard to find and even harder to forget. R.I.P dude and I will be missing you for a long time and even w/ this broken heart I smile because the memories with you aren't sad ones and I will always celebrate your life instead of mourning your death. Love you and see you one day again in a better place..='(..Life might not shine the same w/out you but Heaven shines brighter now..."
"Becky J Tuccio Relation to Deceased: Childhood Friend Living downstairs from the Benedicts for my childhood years was wonderful. Sleepwalking downstairs to ask if Robert and Rosemarie could play, christmas, birthdays, pasta soup with grandma Rose. The day I broke my arm and you both were with me. My sincerest sympathy and compassion for the loss of Robert. I would love to offer my condolences in person, I do not have your contact information: Please contact me: rjt858@gmail.com Robert was a wonderful boy and I am sure an outstanding man. Love Always, Becky"
"Michael D. Meier Jr Relation to Deceased: Close Friend Dear Momma Benedict, I remember so many memories of my dear friend "Booby" when we worked at Camp together. From being roomates and eating all the crab we could, to going to your loving home for a good home cook meal. I a young college football player at St John Fischer College and "Bobby" becoming my closest and dearest friend. The countless weekends that Adam, Bobby and I watching football at Missy and Adam place. To playing ucker for countless hours, There are so many that my heart is crushed. Especially the first Camp Good Days and Special Times camping session in Florida. Frank Towner, Mike Falvo, "Bobby", Myself and Dana boy what a trip we had. Laugh the hole way down. For all of us that are so fortuniatly blessed to have shared our life with "bobby", for he was a great person full of life. Bobby I love you like a brother and I will see you one day again. l Love You Booooooooobby!!!!!!!! As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ..... Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ..... To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We're thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us."
"Brian Lipe i remember all those times in leaders playing the two best sports shaving cream wiffle ball and of course ufo, youll be missed bobby The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to ea"
"Enza and Daniel Daugherty Relation to Deceased: friend Dear Benedict family, We are extremely sorry for the loss of your son and brother. You are in our prayers always God Bless and stay strong. We are here for you always. Love, Dan, Enza and Family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips"
"Rosemarie Paratore Relation to Deceased: Sister My dearest brother, my life will never be the same without you. I am proud that you were my brother, you ulitmately impacted my life in ways that I can not express. Please watch over your nephew as he loves you dearly. We miss you and love you and hold you close to our hearts everyday."
"John LoTemple Bobby and I were roommates in college and went to AQ together. Bobby always had a smile on his face and was like a big brother to me. He will be missed! Rest in Peace buddy, God Bless! I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You'll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker"