In loving memory of

David Sackett
November 23, 1948 - May 2, 2013

Sackett, David

Greece: Lost a long, courageous battle with cancer, May 2, 2013 at age 64. Predeceased by mother, Ellen (Buck) Sackett and father, Ira Sackett; brother-n-law, Richard Danzig. He is survived by his loving wife, Darlene (Danzig) Sackett; children, Stacey (Joseph) DeGraeve, Stephanie (Kevin) Johnson, and Dave Sackett; 4 grandchildren, Ryan Johnson, Madison DeGraeve, Carter Johnson and Macie DeGraeve; brother and sister, Carole (John) Pettinger, Dick (Carol) Sackett; mother-n-law, Helen (Galbraith) Danzig; brother-n-laws, Kenneth (Kay) Danzig, Bill Danzig, Dave (Sherri) Danzig and Craig (Janet) Danzig; many nieces, nephews, cousins and countless friends.

Dave was born on November 23, 1948 in Rochester. During his time at Edison Tech High School, one of the memorable things about him was his athletics, notably baseball. Dave later joined the police academy and joined the Rochester Police Department in 1969. On January 15, 1990, Dave retired from the force after 20 years of service. He was an avid bowler and was inducted into the Bowling Hall of Fame in 1998. He will always and forever be remembered for his sense of humor, compassion for others, enthusiasm for life, and endless love for his family. Some of the things that he enjoyed was working around the house, such as building a gazebo, deck and pond. The most important events in his life was attending his children's activities. He is an inspiration to all.

Dave's visiting hours will be on Sunday, 2-4 and 7-9 at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane, Rochester, NY 14626. On Monday, please meet the family at Our Mother of Sorrows Church for his Funeral Mass at 10 a.m. The family wishes to thank all of his care givers, especially Dr. Deepak Sahasrabudhe and Jeanne Hammond. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wilmot Cancer Center, URMC 601 Elmwood Ave Box 704 Rochester, NY 14642 in Dave's memory.

Tributes

ARPALER wrote on Apr 26, 2014:

"The Association of Rochester Police and Area Law Enforcement Retirees still honors Dave's service to his community. He will always be a brother in fraternity. We also recognize Dave's recent selection to the Rochester Slow Pitch Softball Hall of Fame."

To the family of Dave sackett wrote on May 9, 2013:

"So sorry to hear of the passing of Dave. My husband bill and myself and my brother Ken wachholder are deeply saddened by his passing. We cannot tell you the fun that we had bowling in tournaments with him. We would make him laugh so hard sometimes. I know how much he loved bowling with us. The last time we won the mixed team we told each other that we need to win this for Dave he's had a hard time. So we did indeed win and what a great pleasure it was. He was so excited!!!!he will be missed. Bonnie &BillBeachner and Ken Wachholder."

Michael & Patty Falcipieri wrote on May 7, 2013:

"Darlene & Girls, Sad to hear of Dave's passing - he was truly a good guy. We have fond memories of Dave, you and the girls on Ann Marie Drive."

Steve Auberger & Family wrote on May 6, 2013:

"Dave - I am sorry for your loss. Your dad was a good guy and will be missed. Condolences from all the Auberger families in OH, VA and TN."

Tim Young wrote on May 6, 2013:

"Tim Young purchased flowers (Eternal Affection Arrangement) May you take comfort in knowing there is one more angel above us. With heartfelt condolences, MOLSON COORS"

Bryan and Abbey Simmons wrote on May 5, 2013:

"We would like to offer our sincere condolences to the Sackett family."

Hat Nicolaus wrote on May 5, 2013:

"It was a honor to have known you over the course of our bowling careers. Rest in Peace."

Jim and Yvette Hughes wrote on May 5, 2013:

"Darlene and family, We will always remember Dave's kindness, sense of humor and especially for all the fun we had at softball and in the bowling alley. Our thoughts and prayers are with you."

Jill and Bill wrote on May 5, 2013:

"Aunt Darlene and family, Our deepest condolences on your loss. Uncle David will be remembered by many for his kindness, love for his family, and his infectious humor. We will miss him."

ARPALER wrote on May 5, 2013:

"Dave's brothers and sisters from the ARPALER send prayers and condolences to the Sackett family. He was an Officer and a gentleman."

tom newman wrote on May 4, 2013:

"rest in piece Dave your fight is over but your memory will live forever"

Glenn Pettinger wrote on May 4, 2013:

"As I shared with my Facebook friends today Uncle Dave was an avid sports fan and in particular the New York teams. (Giants and Yankees) I'm also an avid (sometimes too avid) sports fan but my alligence lies with the Cowboys. We would jibe each other over the years over our teams fortunes or misfortunes. One early memory that I have in this department is when I was in little league and my big uncle came by to see a minute of my game. Now as I think about it I was 9 or 10 and he was all of 19 or 20. It was my turn at bat and he was positioned behind the backstop to get a good view. I was all excited and was going to show him my stuff. The first pitch comes in and I take a mighty swing. Strike One! No problem, I've got this. Next pitch even mightier swing and ... Strike Two. I'm still smiling and thinking this next one is outta here. The pitcher toes the rubber, winds up and hurls one right in the dirt. Strike Three! Yer out. I think I came out of my shoes with that swing. I sheepishly walk past him to the sideline and he says" You didn't have to swing at all of them. You could have probably gotten on with a walk". My baseball career didn't last long but fast forward to today and I have gotten into a much more sedate game called...Hockey! Now Uncle Dave never saw me play hockey at least not until last night. Last night I scored three goals and assisted on another. It was my first scoring night like that in ten years of hockey. In fact I hadn't scored more than two goals in the last two years. The first goal I scored I attributed to my birthday but as the goals piled up I realized that Uncle Dave was smiling down on me from Heaven and giving me a little assist himself. I like to think he's playing catch with my brother right now. I'll miss you Uncle Dave. RIP"

Kelly Argento wrote on May 4, 2013:

"From our family to yours, Our deepest condolences. Dave was a great man and will be forever missed."

Sandra Ford wrote on May 4, 2013:

"Sandra Ford purchased flowers (Amazing Arboricola) We are very sorry for your loss. Sandy Ford, Mark House, Jacque Stilwell, Mark Minunni and Lin Smith"

Bonnie and Jack Cholette wrote on May 4, 2013:

"Darlene and family: we were so very sorry to read of Dave's death. While it has been a great many years since we were all playing sports in our neighborhood circle, we so fondly remember all those good times. Dave was always so much fun to be with and will certainly be missed by all who knew him."

Jon Eygabroat wrote on May 4, 2013:

"You were a good officer and friend and I will sincerely miss you. Until we meet again, Brother Jon Eygabroat"

bonny & bob wrote on May 4, 2013:

"We will always remember the fun and the good times and your place within the family. You will be missed, rest well!"

Karen Ott Guerinot wrote on May 3, 2013:

"Darlene, I'd had a difficult time dealing with my divorce and the difficulties in life, but in looking at you and your love for Dave, it gave me hope in relationships and life. My sincere condolences to you and your family during this difficult time."