April 27, 2014. Predeceased by grandfather, Albert Dillio. Survived by parents, Anastasia Dillio, Andrew Wehner; 3 sisters; grandparents, Mary Alice Dillio, Kathleen (Clyde) Buchanan; aunts, Amanda (RJ) Rasmusson, Crystal Dillio, Ashley Cummings; uncle, Brian (Amber) Wehner; cousins, and many relatives friends.
Visitation is 4-8 PM Thursday at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (between 390 Long Pond Rd). To celebrate Alyssa's journey to paradise, please wear bright, colorful clothing. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Golisano Children's Hospital, 300 E River Rd, PO Box 270032, Rochester, NY 14627 in Alyssa's memory.
Alyssa was born with a condition called holoprosencephaly. Holoprosencephaly is a cephalic disorder in which the prosencephalon fails to develop into two hemisphere. Alyssa has beat all the odds and has made the last 7years amazing. Unfortunately the doctors have said there is nothing more they can do for her. Alyssa had a small bowel obstruction that killed off part of intestine. Alyssa was placed on hospice and the angels called Alyssa for her wings to start her new journey to paradise .
Tributes
Mary wrote on May 2, 2014:
"I knew not of you but I knew of your daughter. My condolences go out to you. Be at peace within your hearts to know that your daughter, Alyssa now sits at the right hand of the Father. She has passed on and now she is out of her pain and she's your Angel within your family. I am sorry for your loss. God be with you and God Bless the both of you."
Frank wrote on May 2, 2014:
"I read of the loss of your dear loved one, and would like to extend my condolences. It has been said that the death of one's own child is the worst, the most painful, loss that a human can face. Although we suffer, there is comfort from our loving heavenly Father in that He gives us hope. Our heavenly Creator 'yearns' to reunite children with their parents by means of a resurrection, and lovingly has made provision to do so. Please, take a few moments to read John 5:28,29; Job 14:14,15. Also at Luke 7:11-15 Jesus demonstrated what the resurrection would mean for young children. When this resurrection takes place, imagine how overjoyed you could be when you are reunited with Alyssa again! May the promises of Our Creator, as stated in the Bible, bring comfort to your grieving hearts.(2 Thessalonians 2:16,17)"
Mary Kay Peachey her Teacher Aide at Mary Cariola wrote on Apr 30, 2014:
"My sweet Alyssa you have touched so many lives at our wonderful school and your smile was the light of my day. The angels can now have that beautiful smile as you fly into their arms and they will open them wide. My angel you may be up in heavben now but, you will always be my very special angel. Go dance with the angels and spread your wings and flutter thru out the clouds."
cathy miller bus attendent from monroe school tran wrote on Apr 29, 2014:
"my dearest alyssia your love spirt and great smiles really made my day while i was your bus attendent your were a joy. Ill miss you muches my little angel please play with the angels in heaven. Your life on earth touch my heart forever your memories are forever"
cathy miller bus attendent for monroe school trans wrote on Apr 29, 2014:
"alyssia you were a amazing young child who i enjoyed being your bus attendent from 2010 to 2012 ill miss you dearly your smiles was contagious no my dearest little angel go run and play you will be missed my condolence to the family loved being alyssa"s friend"
Ilene fetzner wrote on Apr 29, 2014:
"May our good Lord Jesus bring you and your family strength, courage, and a peace that surpasses all understanding during this trying time."
Amber Diaz wrote on Apr 29, 2014:
"Amber Diaz purchased flowers (Eternal Affection Arrangement)
Deepest sympathy, Rest beautiful angel"
Jennifer Travis wrote on Apr 28, 2014:
"Prayers go out to your family at this time. God bless you all."
Cheryl Sanders wrote on Apr 28, 2014:
"I am so sorry for your loss and I am lost for words except my to say my prayers and thoughts are with you all. If there is anything I can do let me know. I'm sorry that I can't be there. Again I'm so sorry."