"There are so many things I will miss about Pat, his love of a good story,his love of his family, he was so proud of all of you. He had a life energy that was unmatched. I will always remember his strong will and determination through his illness. He never lost faith that he would get better. Heaven is a little brighter now with his smile and laugh, and we are all the better for being part of his life."
In loving memory of
Patrick Fedele
October 29, 1941 - February 1, 2015
Pat is predeceased by his parents, William Angelina Fedele; brother, William "Billy" Fedele. He is survived by his wife, Diane (Cariello) Fedele; children, Debbie (Dennis) Fedele-DeCoste, Scott (Priscilla) Fedele, Pat (Elena) Fedele; grandchildren, Jason, Geoffrey DeCoste, Christian Rivas-Vargas, Adriana Fedele, Samantha, Anastasia Fedele; great-grandson, Xavier Rivas-Vargas; brother, Phil "Red" Fedele; sister, Linda (Richard) Siesto; dear friends, Dave Edwards Joe Pelliccia; several nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends.
Pat's visitation is 1-3 6-9 PM Wednesday at the Funeral Home, 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 Long Pond Rd). His Funeral Mass will be celebrated Thursday 10 AM at St. Lawrence Church, 1000 N. Greece Rd. Interment in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Strong Memorial Hospital, C/O Paliative Care Unit, 601 Elmwood Ave., Rochester, NY 14642 in Pat's memory.
During Pat's high school years he wrestled for Madison HS. Throughout his life, Pat always had a sense of humor. He maintained a positive outlook on life. Everything was always "terrific" in Pat's world. He was hardworking and very social.
Pat was a fan of the Green Bay Packers, NY Yankees and Corvettes. His musical talents could be heard while he was playing the accordion or the piano. Pat played the piano for the Maiden Voyage Band.
Pat's taste in music was apparent in the types of bands he listened to which included: AC/DC, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Pablo Cruise and Elvis.
Pat met the love of his life, Diane, while the two of them attended grade school at School 21. They were eventually married at Holy Family Church on June 29, 1963.
Family meant everything to Pat. He always enjoyed Nan Gary's clambakes and every holiday was special to him. He especially looked forward to birthdays and spending time with his grandchildren. Pat will be dearly missed.
Tributes
"Talking with Uncle Pat in the mornings at work was something I always looked forward to (and working hard of course). He always believed in me and took the time to listen to anything I had going on at the time. At my new job I've kept his same mentality when it comes to work, whenever someone asks how I'm doing I always respond "Terrific". I remember attending an AC/DC concert years ago and Pat being excited to hear all about it, I printed him countless pictures and recited the entire show for him."
"Love you dad and miss you"
"I love you and miss you dad!"
"Love and Miss you Pat."
"My condolences to the Fedele family."
"Miss You"
"Rest in peace my brother"
"To Diane, Debbbie and family. First my condolences to the family for the loss of your husband, father, brother and uncle. He was a very sweet and loving man. He made me feel very welcome in their home. I will always remember his smile. Sending my love and prayers to get you through these difficult times. He was a great grand dad to Jason and Geoffrey."
"To all the Fedele Family I am sorry to hear about the loss of your husband,father, grandfather. I really didn't know Patrick on a personal level, but felt that I knew him through his son Scott and the great stories he would tell about his hard working dad. My heart goes out to all his family.. Especially to Scott and his family and Debbie and her family..Anytime you need just a hug I am here for you.. Just always remember the great times and the hurt will subside and not be as painful..Cheerish the people you love that are still with us.."
"Pat, I always enjoyed the kidding around when we would meet at the Brook House. You were always a true gentleman and one of the hardest workers I ever met. From the Post Office to John Billone, to the Brook House to whoever needed help, you were the best. Besides being a Yankee fan, you played one of my favorite instruments (the Accordian). Not only did you leave beautiful memories for all of your family members, you left me and the rest of the Madison gang a lot of warm and love by just being "Pat Fedele" You will always be in my heart and as I sit here typing this, I leave "A Face" for you! Thank you for your many years of friendship. Joe Cimino"
"Additional Tribute Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3lu4Yt26b4"