"I am so sorry about Vicky. She was always so welcoming and kind to me. Christmas parties were the best at their place. Big hugs to Jill, Amy, David and family."
In loving memory of
Vicki Sue Benda
April 28, 1958 - October 15, 2020
Vicki Sue Benda (62), passed away on October 15th, 2020 in her home surrounded by her family.
Vicki was born in Chicago, IL, to Joseph and Lillian Daly. Beloved wife of David Benda, sharing together 41 beautiful years of marriage. Loving mother of Amy (Roy) Lewis, Jillian Benda and Timothy Lindgren. Cherished grandma to Lexus, Bentley, Spike, Maggie and Jasmin; her 4-legged grandbabies. Dear sister of Joleen (Richard) Wahlberg. Also survived by her loving and loyal companion, Diesel the Chihuahua.
Vicki was One of a Kind. She meant so much to not only our family, but many others. She was the first person to help anyone in need and had a wicked sense of humor that could brighten any situation! Vicki loved Jesus with all her heart and trusted Him through every plan He had for her life. Some of her very favorite hobbies included shopping, high tea and hair blow outs with her girls. Now she is dancing in Heaven with Jesus - with BOTH legs; free of all pain and suffering.
The family will receive friends at Hansen Desert Hills Mortuary and Cemetery, 6500 E. Bell Road, Scottsdale on Tuesday, October 20th for viewing 3pm-8pm. The funeral service will be held Wednesday, October 21st at 10am with Luncheon to follow.
Tributes
"Our deepest sympathies to all the Benda family. Vicki was a BIG hearted person. Even when you guys moved to Arizona we still call the house the Benda\'s house. A big hug to David, Amy and Jill Love your old neighbors, Steve, Sharon & Katelyn Lindstrom"
"We are so sad to hear of Vicky?s passing. We have many fond memories on Baron Road in Mokena. Dino and I are sending you all our love and prayers during this time. "
"Kaspar Family Our Deepest Condolences David, Amy, Roy , Jill , Tim & Family!! Blessed to have known Vicki ...Her Big Heart & Zest for Life was A Beautiful Life worth Celebrating! My Favorite memories of her are Halloween & *Christmas...she welcomed our boys at such a Special time in our life! ??Sorry , we couldn?t be there to say goodbye! We are keeping you all in thought & prayer in the days ahead....Love, Lisa, George, Andrew & Nathan"
"We will surely miss your smile and sense of humor. We are very sad to hear about this. We are sending many prayers for her beloved David, Amy, Roy and Jillian. We wish we could be there to hug you all. Much love to you all. Kelly & Rick Woloszyn"
"I am very sorry for your loss. I remember all of you being very fun and kind. Hope you find peace knowing she is with our Lord and out of pain. Prayers for all at this difficult time.?? Love, Julie Holda ( Brenda\'s sister)"
"A wicked sense of humor is definitely what I remember most. Vicki was full of life, sass, and love and I wish I had spent more time enjoying life with her and all of you. I cherish the smile I see when I close my eyes and think of the Bendas, as you all shared the same zest of life and love. My prayers are with you during this most difficult time."