"I worked with Vinnie at AJs Fine foods. Loved working with her. She is a wonderful soul. May peace and comfort be with her family and friends"
In loving memory of
Vincenza "Vinnie" Ossipinsky-Wilson
January 17, 1931 - September 16, 2020
Vincenza LoPinto was born on January 17, 1931 in Brooklyn, New York. She was the 3rd child of Giuseppe and Giuseppina LoPinto who immigrated from their village of Marineo in Sicily when they were teenagers. A family story that has been passed down is that Grandpa Joe, (her Dad), was so taken by her beauty when she was born that he could not decide on just one name for her. The best he could do was to narrow it down to these 5 names to describe how he felt about this beautiful baby girl. He named her: "VINCENZA MARIA VIOLETA CONCETTA REGINA LoPinto." It had to be simplified for legal reasons so her official name became Vincenza Maria LoPinto. In her adult life she preferred to be called "Vinnie."
It is a beautiful love story of how she met John J. Ossipinsky at church dances in the late 1940's in Brooklyn. John J. was suddenly called back into service for the Korean War. He proposed to Vinnie and they planned a wedding in the Catholic Church in less than a week's time! They were married on October 1, 1950.
Their 1st child, MaryJo, was born on August 29, 1951 in Belleville, Illinois where they were stationed. John J. and Vinnie went on to create a family of 5 children to whom they gave a wonderful, whimsical, fun-filled yet disciplined childhood in Brooklyn, NY. Vinnie and John J. had a wonderful 48 year, wild ride of married life until John J. died unexpectedly in 1998. He was 68 years old. Theirs was truly a love story for the ages.
Remaining single for 8 years after John J.'s death, Vinnie met Gordon B. Wilson on a blind date. They hit it off famously!! Vinnie and Gordon dated for a few years then got married in May of 2008. Gordon was very good to Vinnie and Vinnie was happy to be coupled again in a loving relationship. Gordon passed away in August of 2016 in their home due to complications of bladder cancer. Vinnie was fortunate to have Loved 2 great men in her life.
In July of 2018 Vincenza was diagnosed with 'Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus' which affected her ability to balance, stand or walk. During her 2 year convalescence at home she was very well cared for by her children as well as some very special, loving care givers that brought her Joy. Doctors and Neurosurgeons were often baffled and pleased with Vinnie's ability to heal and stay healthy despite her diagnosis which kept her mostly in bed.
Vincenza Maria (Lopinto Ossipinsky) Wilson passed away peacefully of natural causes at her home in Phoenix, Arizona on Wednesday, September 16, 2020. She is survived by her 5 children and their families. MaryJo Polimeni and (dec) husband John, Susan and Jerry Villano, Vincenza and Richard Milo, John and Eileen Ossipinsky, Dr. Stephen Ossipinsky and her "adopted son" R. Armando Quiroz. She had 6 grandchildren: Phillip, John and Thomas Polimeni, Jaime Lynn Key, Falin and Colin Ossipinsky. Also 10 great-grandchildren: Alex, Lizzie, Paige, Brooklyn, Johnny, Katelyn and Chloe Lacy Polimeni. In addition to Graycen, Declan and Owen Key. Vinnie is also fondly remembered by many nieces, nephews and cousins.
Although she held various jobs in her younger years and was always by John J.'s side while they ran different businesses in New York then Arizona, her greatest accomplishment was raising her family and watching it grow. Vinnie's wry wit and the many lessons of unconditional love gave her children a blueprint on how to deal with life's adversities as well as it's victories. Her strength, dignity and ability to forgive are just some of her remarkable traits that we all will continue to learn from. She will be dearly dearly missed.
Tributes
"Growing up across the Ossipinsky family on 64th street in Brooklyn, I have many fond memories of Mrs. O and her wonderful family. She was always happy to have us in her home and made us feel welcomed and safe. My deepest condolences to the Ossipinsky family and may the many wonderful memories of your mom, Mrs. O, carry you moving forward. Love to all. Frank Perniola "
"Several years ago, we visited Arizona on vacation and stayed a while in Sedona to view the Red Rock Buttes. It was beautiful and amazing. But the highpoint of our trip was when we visited with Vinnie. She welcomed us into her home, fed us, visited with us, and we shared tales of our favorite pets, friends, and family members. Vinnie was always a loving and generous person and one of my favorite cousins. I will always remember her and love her. Now the door on her difficulties here, in this world, has closed and she has moved on to a far better place. She may be gone, but she will always be remembered and never be forgotten. ? Ben Scott"
"Dear John, MaryJo, Susan ,Vinnie (girl) Steven & family, My fondest memory growing up on 64th street was your mom\'s door was always opened. No matter what she was doing she always stopped & gave her full attention to listen. If you were the lucky one to be in the house when she decided to do something she would always ask you to join So many childhood memories that I was fortunate to hold close to my heart!?Rest in Peace! Mrs. O Love, Richie Cagnoni &family "
"My condolences to you John and Eileen and your entire extended family for the loss of your mother, grandmother, great grandmother, aunt, and sister. Vinnie is a beautiful person inside and out. May God embrace your family in compassion and comfort as you mourn your loss. Kathryn Mierke, a client of John?s in Ohio. "
"I only have a few memories of Zi\' Vinnie, but they are very sweet. She was a lovely person. Big hugs to all of you. Laura Ferro (cousin) & Bill Sokol (husband)."
"It is suggested that we share a favorite memory of Vincenza. I will always remember Aunt Vinnie\' s voice, laugh & love. How being in her home felt just like being in my own & the many memories that we shared over the years. To MaryJo, Susan, John, Vinnie & Stephen, my thoughts. love & prayers are with you & your families. God Bless You, Joe Sollitto "
"Aunt Vinnie wasn\'t my Aunt by blood she was my mom\'s best friend. I always would get so excited when she would come to my house. May you rezt in eternal peace say hi to my mom. Love you"