Barbara Morrow (nee Buccarelli), 61, of Scottsdale passed away July 10, 2020. Born in Rahway, New Jersey, she grew up in Woodbridge, New Jersey. She worked in the securities brokerage business as a trader in the early part of her career and then stayed home raising her children for a number of years before transitioning to real estate in 2004.
Predeceased by her mother, Sally Buccarelli, she is survived by her beloved husband of 32 years, Brad Morrow; two children with one spouse, Cody and Ceira O'Neill-Morrow and Megan Morrow; her father Anthony Buccarelli; three siblings and spouses, Richard and Mary Buccarelli, Ron and Meg Buccarelli and Robert Buccarelli; two step children and their spouses, Bryan and Jennifer Morrow, Jason and Amy Morrow; five step grandchildren, Emmalee, Easton, Norah, Uriah and Peyton; a loving extended family.
We are devastated by the loss of an extraordinary wife and mother, but are comforted to know she is free from pain and anguish.
A visitation will take place Saturday, July 25 from 11:00am - 2:00pm at Hansen Desert Hills Mortuary, 6500 E. Bell Road, Scottsdale. Private service to follow before cremation.
To best protect the health of those in attendance the visitation will consist of three separate time slots.
From 11:00am - 12:00pm those with last names from A - I are invited.
From 12:00pm - 1:00pm those with last names from J - R are invited.
From 1:00pm - 2:00pm those with last names from S- Z are invited.
These visitation times will be managed by funeral home staff. Physical distancing will be in place and masks are always required.
Barbara's service is private and will be live streamed. Please follow the link below Saturday, July 25 at 2:00pm.
http://www.legacyhdv.com/0703.html
Tributes
Eileen Ettinger wrote on Aug 2, 2020:
"I have been lucky to count Barb as one of my closest friends. Missing her is one of the ?new normal? feelings of everyday life. Barb came into my life 20 years ago when we moved into our basement house in Triple Crown across the street from Barb & Brad. My kids, Kevin and Megan, despite having a yard, a swing set, a pool and a basement full of toys and video games, insisted on playing in the street EVERY day. Kevin would invite kids home after school then ring all the doorbells of the neighborhood kids to get a raucous game of kickball, wiffle ball, soccer, basketball or street hockey going on the street between our house and the Morrows? house. Cody was a frequent participant and so my friendship with Barb began. We found out we had so much in common. Both New Jersey transplants to AZ, we?d actually lived across from each other before: in college at Rutgers. Barb was a sophomore at Douglass and I was a freshman at Cooke. Our dorms were identical buildings side-by-side on the shared campus. We learned of other shared experiences as well: working in Manhattan and weekends on Long Beach Island where my husband?s family has a summer house. We two Jersey girls connected. Soon we were subbing in each other?s Bunco groups and later, after we moved across town, meeting for lunch or girls nights out when possible. Barb got her real estate license, helping us rent and sell houses we?d renovated. She was a meticulous professional who brought calm and good sense to the process. Over the years, the kids stayed friends, growing up into the wonderful adults that we?d hoped they would be, and we?d stayed friends too, occasionally meeting up for dinner with Brad & Steve after work.
Ultimately, we shared another experience, bringing us closer but regretting it just the same, when Barb called to say she had been diagnosed with breast cancer. Mine had abated for a decade when Barb found hers. I?m hoping that at the very least, our conversations brought some small comfort to her when we?d talk about her treatments, wigs, food and growing your hair back. Barb stayed ?Jersey Strong? and always hopeful throughout. I will miss having her in my days going forward but am so happy that for the last 20 years, I have had her in my life.
Eileen Ettinger"
Stefanie Buccarelli wrote on Jul 25, 2020:
"Barbie was a great sister-in-law. I have many memories. We had fun the day of her wedding. Only she and I know what we laughed about it. We also had fun at oak island the one summer I visited. Holidays, summers and get family togethers. I will miss her! Love you always!"
Ramie Janis wrote on Jul 25, 2020:
"I will miss you, Barb. I'll miss your smile and the way your eyes would crinkle with lighthearted humor. I'll miss how open and refreshingly honest you always were, but in a warm and generous way. Bright, witty, and caring, I know how much you loved and cherished your family, and I am lucky I got to know you. "
Beth wrote on Jul 25, 2020:
"Love you Barb and your honesty and humor will never be forgotten! I love you forever and always!
Love,
Beth and Fred Dery"
Melinda Cislo wrote on Jul 23, 2020:
"Barb was my dear friend for 18 years beginning with a play group for our daughters. Even after our group ended and our kids stopped playing together Barb and I remained great friends. Our nights out with our other musketeer Kory were always something I cherished and looked forward to. Barb loved her family and her friends with her whole heart and she will be in my heart forever! Love you dear friend!"
Denise and David Higgins wrote on Jul 21, 2020:
"I remember how we spilled our souls to each other on our long walks. I remember how we laughed our heads off and trusted each other to talk about anything and everything. I remember how Barb was such a loyal and caring friend and always had a a way of bringing lightness into something that seemed heavy. I remember double dates with our husbands, good food and drink and great conversation. I remember how deeply she loved her husband, kids and family. I miss my dear friend so much and I will always remember her forever."
Al and Jean Batson wrote on Jul 18, 2020:
"In the Spring of 2013, our HomeSmart monthly meeting had just finished when I felt a tap on my shoulder - looking up there was a smiling face saying, "I've had my eye on you two! Can we meet for coffee - I have a proposal for you?" We met for coffee the next morning. Barb needed someone to cover for her for her annual Jersey shore vacation. We discussed our experience and backgrounds and decided together that we were a great fit. And as it turned out, we were in the same situation; needing a good Realtor to cover for our vacation later that summer. We've been doing that for all these years - through vacations and illness. One of us sat with Barb on her open houses; for safety and just to hang out. There has to be a mutual respect and trust to have that kind of partnership. And we've had that - always. We've done our Continuing Educations classes together and socialized. She's meant the world to us over these years. Barb has crossed paths with so many people - and we're all better for our connection to her. Nothing was more important to her than Brad and her family. Brad, we're here for you and your family - always. Rest in peace, dear friend. We will miss you terribly.
Love, Al and Jean Batson "
Peggy Bagarozza wrote on Jul 16, 2020:
"Barbie was my roommate in college, but she was so much more than that to me.
She was a best friend that I could go a year without talking to but still pick up the phone and feel like we just saw each other yesterday. I will really miss those calls.
I won't be able to listen to Billy Joel or Boston song without thinking about her. She played some pretty awesome air guitar.
There are so many wonderful memories I will hold in my heart whenever I think of her.?
Rest in peace Barb.
I know you would want us all to celebrate what CWG called your continuation day.
I will do my best to hold back the tears and instead focus on the happy memories and my faith in the belief that no one leaves this earth before their time. This belief was something the two of us shared. We also believed that our spirits continue on in a life that never ends. I still plan on talking to you Barb, and I look forward to hearing and feeling your responses.
Love you always.?
"
Kory Shaw wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"Barb will forever be in my heart and I will see her in all the beautiful things around me. I am so blessed to have shared so many memories over the past twenty years. She always made me laugh and smile and her face lit up when she talked about her family. Barb was the strongest woman i?ve ever known. She was a loyal friend and had a kind heart. I will miss her so much. "
John Golden wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"I was saddened to hear of the passing of a dear friend of our family. Barbie was a dear friend and a great babysitter. My condolences go out to Mr. Buc and the boys and Brad and his family. I?m sure Mrs. Buc and Musty welcomed Barbie home and heaven will never be the same again "
Shirley parks wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"I feel so blessed to have had you as my friend. Thank you for all you did to help me with my real estate needs. It was always good too when we met for breakfast and had a good gossip session. Farewell my friend."
Michael Lee wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"She became a good friend during high school, a confidant during college, and a better long-distance friend with a few reunions in NJ scattered across the years. As others have kindly observed, 'she was a force of nature'. At the end, nature was too relentless, and cruel. We were fortunate to have had her in our lives. "
Barbara Golden wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"Forever in Our Hearts and Memories. God Bless You Barbie, you will always be part of our family. The Golden Family (Woodbridge)"
LISA BUCCARELLI wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"I can't believe its almost 30 years since I've been in touch with Barbie personally--other than the Christmas cards we share of our growing families, but I wanted to reach out and express how sad I was to hear of Barbie's passing.
I last received a text from her when my parents moved to Florida, and she said she knew how happy I would be to finally have them close by. Her note touched me deeply. Hoping all the memories of Barbie shared by family and friends will bring comfort to you in the days and weeks ahead. Gone too soon, too young."
LISA BUCCARELLI wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"I can't believe its almost 30 years since I've been in touch with Barbie personally--other than the Christmas cards we share of our growing families, but I wanted to reach out and express how sad I was to hear of Barbie's passing.
I last received a text from her when my parents moved to Florida, and she said she knew how happy I would be to finally have them close by. Her note touched me deeply. Hoping all the memories of Barbie shared by family and friends will bring comfort to you in the days and weeks ahead. Gone too soon, too young."
LISA BUCCARELLI wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"I can't believe its almost 30 years since I've been in touch with Barbie personally--other than the Christmas cards we share of our growing families, but I wanted to reach out and express how sad I was to hear of Barbie's passing.
I last received a text from her when my parents moved to Florida, and she said she knew how happy I would be to finally have them close by. Her note touched me deeply. Hoping all the memories of Barbie shared by family and friends will bring comfort to you in the days and weeks ahead. Gone too soon, too young."
Janet Lubas wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
" This photo of Barbie captures her personality perfectly! I?ll always remember her laugh, and her genuine concern for others. One time I was passing through Arizona on a trip, and Barbie graciously invited me into her home. We had great conversations and laughs. I left feeling very close to a woman I knew mostly through my brother and his wife (Henry and Bette). I am so sorry Barbie moved on so soon. I?m sure she completed her earthy mission and made many people happier along the way. "
Joyce Mazzeo Mesarick wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"Barbie was such an important part of my childhood. She taught me to do a cartwheel and eat Chips Ahoy with butter on them. And every time I hear Teach your Children by CSN I think of Barbie as she wouldn?t say hell, which was one of the lyrics. We. Teased her about that but it just shows she was a gentle soul even in 6th grade. RIP Barbie. "
Michael Leary wrote on Jul 14, 2020:
"So brilliant, loving and vivacious . . . so missed . . . and always in our hearts."