"I met Paul when I was at WVU to visit my son Marc. I am very sorry for your loss."
Paul Michael Hartel, aged a tender 21 years, passed away peacefully at his residence in Morgantown, West Virginia on Thanksgiving Day, Thursday, November 24, 2016. He was born on the May 9, 1995 in New York, NY, and is the son of Dr. Paul Hartel and Ms. Eve Connolly and loving step-son of Mrs. Laura Hartel.In addition to his parents and step-mother, he is survived by his beloved brother Devon, doting long-time girlfriend Colleen, both sets of grandparents as well as step-grandparents, and many other fond relatives. Paul was an excellent student of political science, pre-law track, at West Virginia University and held leadership roles with great success and joy in the Model United Nations Club, WVU Student Government, and Mountaineer Boys State association. He loved working and volunteering with children and adults at the Elkins YMCA, Elkins Youth Health Services, and the Knights of Columbus. Paul was well-spoken, well-rounded and well-travelled.While his life here was short, it was indeed a full one. He was a loveable, warm-hearted, intelligent, enthusiastic and ambitious young man. Paul deeply and profoundly touched many lives, and was adored by all who knew him.Friends may join the family to honor Paul's life and legacy at Smith Funeral & Cremation Care, 108 Holland Ave., Morgantown, on Thursday December 1st from 1-3 & 6-8 PM. On Friday, December 2nd, Paul will be moved to St. John University Parish, 1481 University Ave., Morgantown, where he will lay in repose from 12 Noon until the celebration of the Mass of Christian Burial at 1 PM with Father Isaac Hayweiser, OSB, as Celebrant. Following the Funeral Mass, Paul will be returned to Sligo, Ireland for burial. To send personal condolences and other symbolic gestures, please visit www.smithfuneralandcremationcare.com
"I met Paul when I was at WVU to visit my son Marc. I am very sorry for your loss."
"Paul Michael, Naomi, Sylvia and I are with you in spirit today. We are so sorry we can't get to Sligo to say goodbye today. We love you dearly and are heartbroken you are gone from this world. We trust that you are with God and happy. Please be one of our angles. We are praying for you today, however we are also praying for your heartbroken Grandma Ann, grandpa Michael, Brother Devon and your loving Mum Eve. Paul.....rest in peace. With absolutely all our love today and always. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
"Dear Paul Sincere condolences from Sligo. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Shauna Quinn"
"I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray that God puts his arms around you especially on the days when you need it more than others. I did not know your son but my niece goes to WVU and this is just heartbreaking."
"Dear Ann and Michael,Eve , MarySue, John, Devon and Paul and all the family. We are very saddened to hear about Paul Michael's very untimely death. It is such a tragedy for all of you. Our hearts and prayers go out to you in your grief. Sincerely, Margaret and Noel and all your Lowry cousins."
"Fr John Carroll and I have just read the obituary & watched the video that captures Paul Michael's 21 years of precious life in your family & in the life of Colleen & friends. Be assured of our deepest sympathy, of our prayers and of our willingness, here in SUH Chaplaincy, to support you, in whatever ways we can, on your return."
"Paul was a wonderful and had the worlds best personality. He made you feel like he was the most important person he was talking to. We had almost every class together in high school and he made the experience more enjoyable. We also went through the majority of Sunday School together. There was never a dull moment with Paul. I moved away after my senior year of high school, but came back for the Forest Festival and ran into Paul at a party and it was so good to catch up with him. My condolences go out to everyone. Paul touched so many people's lives. I am unable to attend the services that are being held, but I plan to see you when I travel to Ireland in August. Rest easy my friend."
"Offering sincere condolence and our deepest sympathy to all the family and wider family circle on the passing of Paul Michael. Losing a son that you have loved for 21 years leaves a big gap in your life. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time. May he rest in peace. Wendy McGinty and all the staff in the Public Health Laboratory, Pathology Department, Sligo University Hospital."
"I was extremely sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I knew Paul from his time at Elkins High School and always found him to be an extremely polite and friendly young man with a great smile. His loss is a great one and my sympathy goes out to his family and friends. Tina Hinrichs"
"Paul and entire Hartel Family, so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family."
"Sincere condolences on your sad loss. Paul seems to have been a fine young man and will be sorely missed particularly by his family and those close to him .Words are inadequate at a time like this but just be aware that people are thinking and feeling for you ."
"Michael Sweeney sent a floral arrangement."
"Paul was a delightful student, smart, funny, and sweet. His passing is beyond sad. Please accept my sincere condolences for loss. Stephanie Price, former English teacher at Elkins High"
"Rest in peace dear precious young man. My very deepest sympathies to the family."
"My sincerest condolences to the family on this most unbearable lost. MarySue and Eve, my heart goes out to you. All my love and prayers."
"I am so sorry for your loss. I was his junior English teacher at Elkins High. He was a nice young man who was always so well mannered and respectful. His friends loved him because he was so kind to everyone, and he truly did have a real light that shone from within him. Prayers for your family."
"We are so sad. Paul.....we loved you, hope you are resting In peace. Geraldine, Naomi and Sylvia xxx"
"Sorry to hear of the death of such a young man. Sincere sympathy to his parents."
"I had the privilege of knowing Paul when he worked at the Elkins YMCA with my daughter Sarah. What an exceptional young man. He made a lasting impression on me. My heart grieves for his family. May God be with you."
"I am very sorry for your loss, and strength and prayers from all of us at home."
"Rest in peace young Paul."
"Paul and family. Deepest sympathies on your tragic loss."
"So sorry to hear of your sad loss Prayers and thoughts with all the family at this time. Ar Dheis DAC. go raibh a ainm dilis."
"Paul and family, Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son. He sounded like a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Love and deepest condolences, Maria Sell (Merlino)"
"Cousin Paul I imagine there is no pain more far reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time. Christopher Martone"
"Prayers.. thinking of you Colleen, and the rest of Paul's family.. may god wrap is arms around you all in this difficult time."
"Dr. Hartel..........my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Our children are so precious to us in this life we are privileged to share with them.May the sorrow you feel today become the fond memories that will keep Paul in your heart now and forever. DeDe"
"You will be missed dearly my friend. Rest In Peace Paul."
"Sending prayers for Paul's family and for my niece Colleen. May beautiful memories fill your broken hearts."
"Bradley Sharp sent a floral arrangement."
"I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you! God bless!"
"Anne Hartel sent a floral arrangement."
"Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Uncle Anthony and Aunt Pat"
"Virginia M Antretter sent a floral arrangement."
"Virginia Antretter sent a floral arrangement."
"I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son.. You are in my thoughts and prayers xxx"
"We are so sorry that Paul is no longer with us. Please now your family and friends are in our thoughts, prayers, and hearts."
"Tammie Rizzio Youth Health Service sent a floral arrangement."
"James Hartel sent a floral arrangement."
"So sorry for your loss."
"I am so very sorry for the loss of your son! God bless a brand new angel! May you find peace!"
"Paul and Family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. May Paul Jr. rest in peace. Love, Tom & Laura Prendergast and Family"
"We want to send our deepest condolences to Paul's immediate family and friends, its a time no parent including step parent should ever have to suffer. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. We will see you when you get back to Ireland. Sending you all our love and strength. Lots of love and hugs Cathriona Gary Casey and Cillian"
"I didn't know Paul personally but have felt the immense pain for Laura & Paul and what there going through. Sleep well too young to go such a handsome guy xx sending prayers for u all xx"
"Rest easy beautiful soul! You'll definitely be missed!"
"Paul & Laura I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Paul jr. As a relatively new parent myself I can only imagine the hurt you are going through. Cherish the moments you had, at the moment you may be hurting but time is a healer. If there is anything I can do please reach out when you're back in Ireland. Sincere condolences from Ken, Edel & Tadhg"
"My condolences to the family and friends of Paul. I met him during the NMUN Europe in Rome when I was serving as Staff. He was attending the conference as Delegate for the ECOSOC Committee while representing Belarus. I also remember him during the visit in St. Peter, he was moving around this significant and touching place with a deep sense of devotion. His personality and spirit won't be forget. Rest in peace Paul, NMUN Family, Staff and Friends won't never forget."
"Paul and Family we are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. May your son now rest in peace."
"So sorry for your loss Paul was my friend in high school and he was such a great kid and friend he will be missed by many. Thoughts and prayers for all!!!"
"Rest in peace Paulie"
"There are no words. My Prayers are with you."
"Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts."
"Deepest sympathy to the Connolly and Hartel families. Rest in Peace Paulie, we will all miss you. x"
"We will be with you soon, Paul! Long flight ahead. You know how your Dad loves airports! We'll be in 4 before we get there tomorrow, soon to take you home!"
"I will hold you in my heart forever"
"Dr. Hartel and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers during this difficult time."
"I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in all the wonderful and loving memories. I will remember him as a handsome and polite young man."
"You are in our hearts forever."
"There are not any words..... I am so very sorry for your loss."
"Dr. Hartel and Laura, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. May you find peace in your memories. Condolences to your entire family."
"So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you."
"you will be remembered by so many people. You will always be loved. Rest In Peace xx"
"Rest in peace paul Michael, you will always be loved and missed by so many.xx"
"I'm so sorry to hear about Paul Michael. It was only the other week I was telling work friends about our drives to school with Michael playing 'trailers for sale or rent'. I know Paul Michael would roll his eyes but secretly he loved it. We were great friends and he was always ready to lend an ear when I wanted to talk. I can't count all the nice things Paul Michael did for me or all the lovely memories which are now on replay in my head, I know that words will never be enough, all I can say is that my thoughts are with his family and he will always be fondly remembered."
"Rest in peace Paulie. From Trini, Zoe and Chrissie"
"Our hearts are saddened to hear of Paul's passing. He had a special quality about him and will be missed greatly. Our prayers are with all of you."
"My deepest and sincere sympathy to the loved ones of Paul. May he R.I.P"
"RIP Paul too young to go..may the angel's look after you. Thoughts and prayers to your family and friends"
"Your going to be missed so much by many people ,,rip paulie xxx"
"We love you dear son and pal...we are always with you, and we know you are with us too!"
"Paul and Family, Please know that you have my sincere sympathies in this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss."
"Thoughts and prayers for you during this difficult time."
"Paul and family: I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Kristin Klein Wheaton"
"Prayers for the Hartel family!"
"Our condolences go out you at this time. My prayers for strength"
"Evie and family, my heart aches for you. I so enjoyed speaking with Paul over these last several months and am glad I was avle to make his acquaintance. What a nice young man he was."
"Naomi, Sylvia and I are deeply shocked and very saddened to hear of Paul Michael's death. We have many, many happy and fond memories of Paul when we lived in Kilmeaden. We cannot begin to imagine how you must all be feeling. Our deepest sympathy to you all and especially to Devon, Eve, Ann and Michael . May God rest his gentle soul and give you all strength. You are all in our prayers. Much love, Geraldine."
"My love and prayers to your family."
"To the whole Hartel Family, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of your loss."
"Dear Paul and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope the special memories you shared with your son help you through the difficult days ahead. With Deepest Sympathy, Lisa Windsor Balzer"
"As you were you will always be . Treasured forever in our memory. Our prayers are with you all"
"I met Paul when I worked at the YMCA in Elkins,WV and I thought he was great. I was a senior citizen, but he treated me with so much respect.I just thought of him a few days ago.He never failed to speak to me and always gave me a hug. I am so sorry for your loss and I will remember Paul with love. With Sympathy, Lola Spotloe"
"I am so sorry Paul. You all are in my prayers!"
"Thoughts and prayers to the entire Hartel family at this very sad time. May Paul be at peace. With love, Garrett Lechowski and Christa Abel"
"Paul, our beloved son, we miss you dearly yet accept God's need for your gifts at home, from whence given, returned again"