In loving memory of

John "Pancho" Vincent McPhaul
February 4, 1961 - May 19, 2020

John "Pancho" Vincent McPhaul, 59, of Austin, Texas passed away peacefully in his sleep on May 19, 2020 after fighting a long and courageous battle with Multiple Sclerosis. John was born on February 4, 1961, in Austin, Texas to John and Mary Ann McPhaul.

John attended Westlake High School where he played tennis for the Chaparrals. He was well liked by all as he was Senior Class President and a member of Student Council. He spent many summers life guarding at Onion Creek Country Club and it was there, during the summer of 1978, that he met the love of his life Carol Lynne Chesney. They were married eight years later on May 24, 1986. They were blessed to have spent 42 years together.

After graduating from High School in 1979, John continued his education at SMU for a year and then returned home to graduate from The University of Texas at Austin with a Bachelor of Business Administration in 1983. He then began his successful career at Chase Bank. He started in Real Estate Operations, later selected to the Officer Development Program, and in 1987, became a Real Estate Loan Officer. Throughout his career, John worked in multiple areas of the bank. In 1997, he received the "Circle of Excellence Award" for his outstanding work ethic. John later achieved an Assistant Vice President position. Sadly, in 2000, due to the progression of his Multiple Sclerosis (MS) he retired from the Bank.

Throughout the years, John enjoyed volunteering in various organizations. He mentored as a Big Brother, teaching young boys how to become caring and responsible young adults. John worked with the late Bishop McCarthy and other professionals to create the Austin Diocese Forum which is now the Assembly of Catholic Professionals. John also served on the Committee of the National Wildflower Research Center's Young Associates. This committee partnered with Lady Bird Johnson to raise money to help fund and build the Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center.

Prior to MS taking over, John was an avid outdoorsman. You could find him in his favorite pair of Ray-Ban sunglasses sitting on the back porch playing dominoes, spending the day perfecting a delicious barbecue brisket, pitching washers, hunting dove and deer, or shooting skeet with a group of longtime friends.

John enjoyed cooking all types of cuisine and engaged in many cooking classes. Some of his favorite dishes to prepare were Cajun recipes such as gumbo and jambalaya. John also liked to create various pasta dishes and sauces. Another specialty he enjoyed was a Mexican dish of carne guisada and flour tortillas, which he learned to make with his grandmother Nanny.

Other interests of John were planting vegetable gardens and flowers; architectural drawing of floor plans and elevations; designing wood furniture; and enjoying sports, especially the ones displaying the colors of burnt orange and white.

John was a kind and humble man with a witty sense of humor. He loved with his whole heart. John was friendly to all, had a beautiful smile, and gave the best hugs. His upbeat personality was contagious, and his gracious demeanor was shared with all. Without complaint, John preserved through the tough medical challenges he was dealt. Those that knew him well admired his strong faith, courageous spirit, positive attitude, and caring heart. John will be missed by many.

John is survived by his loving, devoted wife of 33 years, Carol McPhaul, and his parents John and Mary Ann McPhaul of Austin, Texas. He also leaves behind his precious son Barrett McPhaul and his wife Shelby of Austin, Texas; brother Mike McPhaul of Lubbock, Texas; sister Jane Smith and husband Michael of College Station, Texas; brother Glenn McPhaul and wife Patricia of San Antonio, Texas; sister Julie McPhaul of Austin, Texas, as well as nine nieces and nephews, two great nephews and one great niece.

The family wishes to thank John's dedicated and supportive care team of Dr. David Morledge, his longtime Neurologist of 30 years who was always just a phone call away and willing to help; Jerrell Nelson, his uplifting physical therapist who helped strengthen his body for over ten years; and Carolyn Evans-Porter, his nurturing caregiver whose hands on care gave peace and comfort. Carol is grateful for the exceptional care they provided over the course of John's illness and especially in his last weeks. Additionally, the family appreciates previous caregivers Janie Rivera and Georgia Puente, as well as the Healthcare Professionals of Hospice Austin.

A funeral mass will be held at 11:00 A.M. on Friday, May 29th, 2020, at St. John Neumann Catholic Church, 5455 Bee Caves Road, Austin, TX. Interment will immediately follow at Assumption Cemetery, 3650 S IH 35, Austin, TX. Visitation and Viewing will be held at Harrell Funeral Home, 4435 Frontier Trail, Austin, TX the night before on May 28th, 2020 from 5:30 P.M. to 8:00 P.M. with a Rosary for John to begin at 7:00 P.M.

Due to COVID-19, a Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of John "Pancho" Vincent McPhaul may be made to the National MS Society, 8111 N Stadium Dr., Suite 100, Houston, TX 77054 or the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Austin Council at PO Box 81511, Austin, TX 78708.

Tributes

Becky and Glenn Armbruster wrote on May 29, 2020:

"We did not know John well, but he must have been an inspiring and nurturing dad to have helped raise such a wonderful young man as his son Barrett, who is one of our son CJ\'s longest-standing and closest friends. All our love and synpathy to John\'s family, Becky and Glenn Armbruster"

Sharon Waits wrote on May 29, 2020:

"John was such a treasure .... he was a great mentor while at Texas Commerce Bank. I was his loan assistant and when I had moved on to another area, he always said \"remember to dance with who brung you\"! Carol, you were the light of his life and he couldn\'t wait for Barrett\'s arrival. John was such a wonderful person and will truly be missed! Sharon Malone Waits"

Georgia Puente wrote on May 28, 2020:

"To everything there is a season, Good bye John aka Panchito till we meet again....It was a pleasure to have cared for you and I thank god for your love and kindness... your beautiful smile... Your sunny disposition, you will be missed.... Carol and family my thoughts and prayers are with you all..."

Janie Cantu wrote on May 28, 2020:

"I cared for John for a while. I used to take him to his Therapy sessions with Jarrell n I enjoyed everything bout John. Very loving n always had a smile on his face. I learned to love n care for john he will be truly missed. Rest on paradise John; gone but never forgotten. Always Janie Cantu "

fred m minter wrote on May 28, 2020:

"john and mary ann, jewel lee joins me in expressing our heartfelt sorry for the loss of pancho. hearing john talk about him all these years, I know how proud your were and rightfully so. may god give you peace and understanding in the days ahead. we will be with you in spirt, if not in person at the service. fred m minter"

Linda Hardy wrote on May 26, 2020:

"John was such a beautiful spirit! Carol and John were beautiful together--love in action and love in acceptance. They were a light in my life and I will treasure the memory of seeing both together. Linda Hardy"

linda dehan wrote on May 25, 2020:

"With deepest sympathy and consolation of the Holy Spirit to you, Carol and all your family. We love you, Linda and Chris Dehan"

Jim Robison wrote on May 24, 2020:

"I was a new student to Westlake in 1973 as a seventh grader the day I met Pancho. When I walked into the classroom before the first class started, he was sitting on a desk with the early arrivals around him. He captivated the group as he told his stories of what he did that summer. Pancho?s easy charm and natural charisma drew people to him. I will always remember him that way. I?m lucky he was my friend. Jim Robison "

Beverly Rogers Conner wrote on May 24, 2020:

"I am so sad to hear this news. I remember Pancho and the whole McPhaul family from the days of my family\'s restuarant Rogers on Bee Cave Rd next to Eanes. I know John is in heaven now with my brother and parents. He was very special and will be missed.I am so sorry for your loss. Beverly Rogers Conner"

Bill Koen wrote on May 24, 2020:

"Rest In Peace, Pancho! Thoughts and prayers for the entire family. Sincerely, Bill Koen and all of the Koen family."

Bill Wendlandt wrote on May 23, 2020:

"My Man PANCHO! Love you like a brother and was honored to bully your amazing wife?s initial boyfriend in high school to clear the path for your charm, movie star looks, and amazing personality, that convinced Carol to fall in love with you and live with you happily ever after! Most all of us would say you were our most genuine and sincere friend at WHS. Rest in peace my/our friend, Heaven just got that much more inviting with you waiting for us!"