In loving memory of

Collin Parker William Holdgrafer
December 30, 2005 - June 12, 2010

Collin Parker William Holdgrafer, 4 year old son of Andrew "Andy" and Danielle (Lathrop) Holdgrafer, of Andrew, Iowa, died on Saturday, June 12, 2010, at the Jackson County Regional Health Center in Maquoketa, Iowa.

A private graveside service and burial celebrating Collin's life was held from the Mount Hope Cemetery, Maquoketa, Iowa. The Carson & Son Funeral And Cremation Services in Maquoketa, Iowa was in charge of the arrangements.

Collin Parker William Holdgrafer was born on December 30, 2005.
Collin loved SpongeBob SquarePants, Little Einsteins and horses.

Among survivors include his siblings, Clay Holdgrafer, Darrian Holdgrafer, Torrie Holdgrafer, Abbie Holdgrafer, and Atlanta Wilson; paternal grandfather, Don (Tina) Holdgrafer of Springbrook, IA; paternal grandmother, Karen Friend of Dubuque, IA; his maternal grandmother, Pamela Brown of Cedar Rapids, IA; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. He was preceded in death by his maternal and paternal great-grandparents, and his maternal grandfather, Dennis Lathrop.

In lieu of other expressions of sympathy, a Collin Parker William Holdgrafer memorial fund has been established. Memorials may be made to the Collin Holdgrafer memorial fund in care of Carson & Son Funeral And Cremation Services, 318 West Pleasant Street, Maquoketa, Iowa.

Online condolences may be left at www.CarsonAndSon.com.

Tributes

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

Tammy Lancaster wrote on Feb 2, 2011:

"my condolences on such a precious little angel,my prayers go out to your family"

kathyheistermeyers wrote on Jul 31, 2010:

"i never met you .. i know your mom and you were full of life .. "

friend wrote on Jul 17, 2010:

"your mom&dad love you very much collin "

Tia wrote on Jul 12, 2010:

"Jodi and family...im so sorry about your loss.. This should have never happened.. He was a beautiful little boy who deserved the best and is now getting that in heaven..HE will watch over all the people on earth that showed him they cared and loved him.. May he rest in peace...Its now your time to shine Collin and i know you will do it at your best"

Amanda Regan wrote on Jul 2, 2010:

"Danielle and Andy - through this very tough time of your loss and the media involvement, know that your family stands behind you. Collin, you were a good boy, and you were loved by many. You will always be in our hearts and you will never be forgotten. "

Elaine wrote on Jun 26, 2010:

"This is so sad no one can understand why this happened. My heart aches for everyone. May Colin rest in peace in the arms of our lord."

Marie Gerhard wrote on Jun 26, 2010:

"Jody, and family, sorry to hear of this terrible loss. You were a friend of my son years ago God Bless"

Mandy wrote on Jun 23, 2010:

"You will be truely missed Collin you beautiful little boy!! "

freind wrote on Jun 23, 2010:

"why did this happen to collin his parent did this to him we love him very much"

Jane Miller, Matt Miller wrote on Jun 23, 2010:

"To Collin\'s extended family--no one will ever understand why this happened to Collin. Know that you did your best to try to prevent anything bad from happening to the children. Know that Collin is your angel in heaven now whom will be watching over all of you. Keep in mind all of your good memories of Collin--they will get you through this. God Bless."

Connie wrote on Jun 22, 2010:

"My dear little boy,I don\'t understand,I believe you are at peace and enjoying all the love possible"

Melissa wrote on Jun 22, 2010:

"I\'m so sorry you left this world too early and so tragically. What a precious little boy you must have been. May gentle Jesus wrap his loving arms around you to give you comfort and lasting peace."

friend wrote on Jun 21, 2010:

"we all miss little collin very much. god will watch over him in heaven. "

Sera wrote on Jun 21, 2010:

"You\'re safe now litte guy, in the loving presence of our Saviour Jesus Christ and the arms of our Heavenly Father... Rest well little fella..."

Lawrence and Cynthia wrote on Jun 19, 2010:

"Dear sweet Collin..we did not have the pleasure of knowing you but your picture tells it all. What a beautiful little boy. May God Grant you the peace that you were denied here on earth. We wish some how and some way we could have helped you. Unanswered cries of a child only seem to ring loudly once they are gone. May the wind be beneath your wings little man..."

kris Clark wrote on Jun 19, 2010:

"my heart goes out to Andy n Jodi.Sorry to hear about ur lil boy"

carey wrote on Jun 19, 2010:

"collin, may you fly with the angels and watch over all of the people down here on earth that love you"

stranger wrote on Jun 19, 2010:

"Rest in Peace little man"

Evonne wrote on Jun 18, 2010:

"What a beautiful young man. Sleep well, dear one. "

Kristy wrote on Jun 18, 2010:

"It breaks my heart to hear about this little guy; at least now he is in a place where he will be protected and properly cared for. Rest in peace."

Cynthia wrote on Jun 18, 2010:

"So sorry for the loss of this little angel.....he didn\'t even have a chance in this world and that is so sad!!"

Jenn wrote on Jun 18, 2010:

"May he rest in peace!"

Brenda wrote on Jun 17, 2010:

"Sorry to hear of the passing of Collin. Such a precious little angle taken away to soon. Our thoughts and Prayers are with your family. "

Deb and Gary Carson wrote on Jun 17, 2010:

"To the Family, You have our deepest sympathies on Collin\'s passing. To Danielle, You have always been a remarkable woman and in this time of heavy emotions, I know that you will draw up the strength necessary to keep everything together for Andy, the kids and, of course, yourself. You are in my prayers. As Always, Deb and Gary Carson"

jim wrote on Jun 16, 2010:

"there are no words for this lost "

rodney and jodi dodds wrote on Jun 16, 2010:

" andy u and ur family are in are thoughts and paryers u are a wonderful father and collin will be miss"

Shantelle Albert and Family wrote on Jun 16, 2010:

"Collin was a very special boy and will be missed by all. Please know Danielle and Andy that I think of you guys every day and love you ver much. Also know that Collin is looking down on us all and will watch over us till we are reunited with him"

Vicki Hansen (yarolem) wrote on Jun 16, 2010:

"Words can\'t express... God Bless your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers"

Scott Hammerand wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"Collin still survives...in our memory and our hearts. And with God. Tho it\'s hard for us to imagine, he is now more free and alive than ever. When we enter 4ever life we will be reunited with Collin. Danielle n family:I am so sorry. I love you all"

Susie Gerischer wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"From a parent to another... there are no words. Praying for you all and know that he is in Heaven."

Wayne Friend & Nikki Leitch wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"My Family is praying for yours to get through this time of tragedy...May God Bless You..."

Leah (Hammerand) Minnihan & Family wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"So many things left undone to experience - so precious was his time with all - but God made his call - he is now an angel in heaven - I know he\'ll stand proud and tall - before the lord - and for all his family - and watch over his family and friends - all the good times can be remembered - to remember the laughter & love he brought to everyday! Our prayers are with you (truly) at this time and always - if you need anything call - love you"

Deb Bowling and Cory Hoover wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"Andy and Danielle Sorry to here about Conlin.I know he is in Heaven with Jesus, and though I didnit know him, he is some one special. you have our simpathy. I told Cory and he feels your pain you were such a good friend to him. He sends his sympathy also. If you need anything at all Please contact me. GOD BLESS YOU ALL "

Dina and Dave Edwards wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"Andy Danielle and family,there are no words to express how much we miss Collin and how sad our hearts are for you all!!Please let me know what I can do to help in any way,Bless Collin!!Bless the Holdgrafer family.We love you!!!"

MaryAnne White wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"To Collins family; he will be missed, as he was loved by each person in a very special way. The many fond memories will get you through these trying days ahead. Hugs to all of you."

Angel Wheaton(a.k.a.Walker) wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"I\'m so sorry to hear what u are going through and what has happened,but u know how to get ahold of me if u need anything as andy u are my cousin i will be there,my prayers and thoughts are with u guys always."

Francis & Dorothy Porter and Annie wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"Andy,Danielle & Family we are so sorry for your loss. Collin will be missed by all. We remeber him most when he was just a baby in Danielle\'s arms.You are all in our Prayers and Thoughts."

Leroy and Mindy Eye wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let us know if you need anything. "

Cody Brewster and Sasha Brewster wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"Im sorry about your loss. he will be miss"

Korene and Mike wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"we are sorry for you lost. We are praying for all of yous take care and you know you guys can count on us for anything we have been there for yous. Need anything let us know. Love yas."

johni-k koppes wrote on Jun 15, 2010:

"collin we will miss alot"

Devon Cochran wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"I cant believe that my lil buddy Collin is gone! I didint get to play with him much but when he was at our house i played with him. I love Collin! I will miss him!"

Brittany McDonald and Johni-k Koppes wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Collin....u were such a cute and amazing lil boy...u surley will be missed...ur smile brought many of smiles on other peoples faces...no1 can beleive u r really gone....we love u and will miss u soooo much but will always remem u cute lil smiling face...RIP COLLIN REST IN PEACE LIL BUDDY"

Missy R wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Many prayers being sent to you and your family in this difficult time."

Buffy Hartman (Sarenas Mom) wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy and Danielle, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of need."

Brandy Shepherd-Margita wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy and Danielle, I know that we lost contact over the years but, I\'m so sorry to hear of your loss. Colin was a great little boy and I will miss him forever. If you guys need anything at all, just let me know... 563-321-2081 or email at bshepherd32190@live.com"

Jaqueline Lang wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy and Danielle I know what you are going through as i lost a daughter many many years ago and it is still hard. Just remember that lil boy will be your angel in heaven looking down on you! If you need anything please dont hesitate to call me 563-212-3042. My prayers are with you and your family!"

Mr and Mrs Cochran and Family wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy and Danielle we are so very sorry to hear of Collin\'s passing. He was our little buddy! I can\'t believe that he is gone! He will be sadley missed by everyone! If you guys need anything at all please call us! We are here for you! We love you guys!"

Joe Caven wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

" Andy sorry to hear of your loss"

Susie DeMoss wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy and Daniell So sorry to hear of your loss I\'m sure he was a wonderful boy and he was lucky to have had you both in his life."

Diane Caven wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy Im so sorry to hear of your tragic loss.I will keep you in my thoughts and prayersIf you need anything we are all still in town."

susan ehlers wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"andy and danielle, we are very sorry of your loss. remember the good times that you and the girls had with him. he will always be with you in your hearts and will be your angel looking over you. if you need anything please feel free to contact us at 563-249-8635."

Angela Wiese & Eric McCutcheon wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Andy and Danielle, Eric and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. If you need anything at all, don\'t hesitate to ask! Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. He was such a cute little boy!"

Heather (Shepherd) Brokaw wrote on Jun 14, 2010:

"Danielle and Andy, Please, please call me if you need any help that I may be able to offer you both in this time of absolute need... I am so sorry for your loss... Colin was such an awesome boy! My number is 319-208-9596 or email brokawhouse@yahoo.com Again, I love you both!"