"One year later and the void is still just as big, if not bigger! Dr. B you were incredible! The most talented Dr. I've ever met and one of the biggest hearts to go right along with it! You loved your boys and spoke so highly of them and your wife. You had passion for your work and everything you were involved with was done the very best! I am comforted knowing you are in a better place. Thank you for saving our sweet Olivia and for being not just our pediatrician but a very dear friend and really becoming part of the family. Your legacy will never be forgotten."
In loving memory of
DR. JOSEPH F. BRZEZINSKI
May 16, 1963 - January 18, 2016
Dr. Joseph F. Brzezinski, 52, of Marquette, entered eternal life Monday morning, January 18, 2016 at his home, in the loving, comforting care of his family and Lake Superior Hospice.
Joe was born on May 16, 1963 in Detroit, a son of Philip and Catherine (Hill) Brzezinski. He grew up in Marlette, MI where he graduated from Marlette High School in 1981. He was a 1985 graduate of Alma College receiving a Bachelor of Science in Mathematics and a 1991 graduate of Michigan State College of Human Medicine U.P. Campus in Marquette. He served his Pediatric residency at DeVos Children's Hospital in Grand Rapids, MI from 1991 to 1994 where he met his future wife, Sherry Davis, in the NICU at DeVos Children's Hospital. They were married on March 19, 1994 at St. Andrews Cathedral in Grand Rapids, MI; and over the next four years had two sons, Phillip, and Michael, who brought great joy to their father. Joe was very proud of his sons and would talk about them to everyone.
Joe, Sherry, and their sons moved to Marquette in 1998, when Joe joined the pediatric group for Marquette General Hospital. Dr. Brzezinski or "Dr. B", as known by his patients and staff, practiced Pediatric medicine in Marquette from 1998 until his health recently precluded him from no longer doing so. Dr. B loved being a Pediatrician. His patients and their families were his priority and he worked diligently to make sure they had the best care possible. Dr. Brzezinski was a leader in the development of the pediatric program, and was completely involved in all aspects of both inpatient and outpatient pediatrics. He was an early leader in the Medical Group and the JOC/Board for the medical group as well as the Chair of Compensation. Dr. Brzezinski was highly regarded for his knowledge and skill in these areas but in particular for his integrity and fairness. He was awarded the Leader Among Peers Award from the Medical Group in 2015. Dr. Brzezinski was an Assistant Professor in the Department of Pediatrics and Human Development at MSU-CHM, serving as the Assistant Pediatric Clerkship Director for the Upper Peninsula Campus of MSU-CHM from 1998 until his passing. He received two MSU-CHM UP Campus Faculty Teaching Awards, in 1996 and 2015. The award is presented to one clerkship director/assistant director each year in gratitude for being the best teacher and role model. Dr. Brzezinski was also a Pediatric preceptor for the Marquette Family Medicine Residency Program and was awarded the 2009 Marquette Family Residency Senior Award which is presented by the senior residents to one teacher each year in appreciation for outstanding contributions to resident training. Dr. Brzezinski was involved in the development of the Blue Print for Health Pediatric weight control program in 2011 and worked at BP4H clinic once or twice a month until December, 2015. He was also involved with the Think First Program, was on the Board of Directors of Upper Peninsula Partnership for Safety for 5 years, served on the Board of Directors for the Marquette General Foundation from 2006-2012, and was appointed to the UPHS Marquette Board of Trustees, on which he served from 2012 to present.
Although Dr. Joe has worn many hats and has had many accomplishments in his professional career, those that know him best will remember him most for his untiring dedication to the care of his patients and devotion to his family.
In his free time, Joe enjoyed running, and could often be seen on the bike path running with his wife, Sherry. He competed in several half marathons, and 5 and 10K runs. He loved to garden, and was very proud of his strawberries, and blackberries. Joe enjoyed going to the movies with his sons, and studying and reading British history. Vacationing with his family was also a great enjoyment and one of his favorite vacations was a trip to Ireland in 2013 with the MSHS Orchestra, of which his sons were members. He was a member of St. Michael Catholic Church in Marquette.
Joe is survived by his wife, Sherry; two sons, Phillip and Michael Brzezinski; his mother, Catherine Brzezinski of Kingston, MI; two sisters, Carol (Michael) Ley of Lake Orion, MI and Susan Brzezinski of Kingston; two brothers, Ted (Tammy) Brzezinski of Kingston and James (Rhonda) Brzezinski of Sandusky, MI; seven nieces and six nephews, Aimee Price, Andrew Brzezinski, Francis Brzezinski, Abigail Brzezinski, Jessica Lolli, Jason Ley, Brian Ley, Kelsey Ley, Sammy Galvan, Tanner Davis, Eden Haven, Zachary Milholin, and Janelle Fleming; also surviving are Parents-in-law, Clifford and Hazel Davis, and several brothers and sisters-in-law. Joe was preceded in death by his father, grandparents, godparent's auntie Helen and uncle Chester, great aunt Sophie and his favorite canine companions, Alex and Grady.
Dr. B will be greatly missed by his family, patients, colleagues, and friends.
The Brzezinski family will greet relatives and friends at the Canale-Tonella Funeral Home, 526 N. Third St., Marquette, on Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m. where a parish prayer service will be recited at 7:30 p.m. Visitation will also take place on Friday from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. at St. Michael Catholic Church in Marquette where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. in the church with the Rev. Greg Heikkala officiating. Entombment will take place in the Holy Cross Cemetery Mausoleum.
Pallbearers will be nephews, Jason Ley, Brian Ley, Andrew Brzezinski, Frank Brzezinski, and Tanner Davis; friends, Ian McNabb and Eric Stephens.
Those wishing to make an expression of sympathy are kindly asked to consider Bay Cliff Health Camp, PO Box 310, Big Bay, MI 49808 or Beacon House, 1301 N. Third St., Marquette, MI 49855 in Joe's memory.
The Canale-Tonella Funeral Home is assisting the Brzezinski family where relatives and friends may leave a note of remembrance at canalefuneral.com
Tributes
"I met Joe back during his Alma College days. We use to talk a lot and share ideas about making movies. He loved James Bond movies. We lost touch years ago but I found him even though we only talked through facebook it wasn't very often. He was a wonderful man and I'm so sorry for your loss. God Bless"
"May I offer my sincere condolences. May your hearts find comfort in God's Word where it states: "He will swallow up death forever, and the Lord will wipe the tears from all faces." (Isaiah 25:8) May your loved one awaken to a world where there will be peace, no sickness (Isaiah 33:24), and no more troubles (Revelation 21:4) throughout eternity (Psalm 37:29). May your hearts find comfort and hope in Gods Word, family, friends and good memories at this time. My deepest sympathy to you."
"So sorry for your loss. So many lives touched and so many dreams accomplished. Rest in Peace Joe."
"I was one of Joe's teachers in High School in Marlette. Also was a chaperone on our trip to Germany one spring. He was a great guy then and became a great man. So sorry to hear of his passing."
"When my son's first pediatrician left the practice and Dr. B, who I had not yet met, took over his care, as any parent would, I wondered if I would like him and how he would work with our son. I need not have worried! With any and all issues our son had, Dr. B was always on top of things and showed such caring and concern. Though I always had lots of questions, he never made me feel he was too busy to listen and answer. Philip and my son were born just a few days apart and were in school together so we would do updates about the boys and school activities. Even though Tony graduated and no longer required pediatric care, I will always think of Dr. B as his doctor and will miss knowing that he is no longer there to give others the wonderful care that our son was fortunate to receive. My sincere sadness for the Brzezinski family."
"I'm sorry for your great loss! You're all in my prayers! Anna Glasstetter MCLAREN LAPEER"
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you Sherry, Philip and Michael. Joe will be missed greatly by the whole community. He definitely has made an impact on Marquette! Sincerely, Mickey and Jake"
"We were saddened to hear of Dr. Brzezinski's passing. He was a wonderful physician who always took the time to make us feel at home. Not too many health care providers have that ability to connect on a human level. You will be missed my many, Dr. Bzrezinski! Our condolences to you and your family, Sherry. Julie & Jeff Hoffman & family"
"You already know what is in our hearts for all of you. There are simply no words to express how sorry we are. Joe will be greatly missed, but never forgotten. With our love and forever friendship, Dave, Patti, Spencer, and Cooper"
"Joe and I were friends and classmates in the Upper Peninsula medical education program. We were a small close knit group (5 young doctors in training and the world was our oyster) and I have many great memories from those days. I will remember him most for his sense of humor. I also remember how much he spoke of his family with genuine affection. Even before he had his own wife and children he had a true blue devotion to his kin that I always admired. Great guy and I will always think of him fondly."
"Dear Sherry, Phillip & Michael, Richard and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to all of you along with our love. We truly regret we are not able to be with you to celebrate the wonderful life of Joe due to our health issues at this time. We always felt that you were in your safe haven in Marguette enjoying the best life possible with the best husband and father in the world. We want you to know your all in our thoughts and prayers daily. Our fondest memories of Joe was when he took the time to call us in Florida when our grandson and Richard were seriously ill at the same time. His encouragement and reassurance was greatly welcomed and calming. He was so generous to be there for us in our time of need but that was just Joe being kind. We also hold dearly in our hearts the memory of your visit to our home in Florida. We can still see Joe retrieving Michael oh so quickly from the deep end of our pool\'s chilly water. Joe\'s response time was swift and precise. We enjoyed the visit and the lunch in the warm sun on the Lanai. We were also happy to see Cathy and will keep that fond memory close in our hearts. We know that Joe was the best husband, father, son and brother to all of his siblings. All of his accomplishments in the medical field are overwhelming. He will be missed by all of the people he reached out to in his short time here on earth. We now have the best guardian angel in heaven watching down over all of us. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers daily. May God bless all of you in your time of need. All our love and deepest sympathy, Mary Ann & Richard Sistick"
"I go way back to Dr. Joe's medical school days when I had the pleasure (and fun) of working with Dr. Joe and his classmates, proctoring their exams and trying to get them places on time for their seminars, lectures, etc. When he had me edit some of his articles, letters and reports he would kid me that I bled all over the page (with my red pen). Later when he and Sherry were back in Escanaba, Danny and I enjoyed many social times with them and baby Phillip when he came along. We really missed them when they moved. More recently (three weeks ago) I stopped by his office to see him and he wasn't in but called me back that same day. We had a lovely conversation and he filled me in on his family and a little bit on his illness and maybe seeing each other again. Rest in peace, Dr. Joe, you are much loved. God bless you Sherry and family! Anita Stockham"
"A true gentle man and a scholar..."
"Dr. Joe wasn't just our Doctor-he was a member of our family. He has taken care of my son since he was 3 years old. He's 21 now and had told us he would continue to be his Doctor-forever. I didn't realize forever had an end date. Dr. Joe took my frantic phone calls at his home and would come running when we sent out an SOS from the ED. He was never afraid to say "I don't know." He was brilliant and humble and would reach out to my son's specialists in MN, forming a relationship with his developmental physician . They worked together to care for my son. He always made us feel my son was the only patient he had. Dr. Joe, you made my world a better place. You made a difference and you will be missed."
"Dr B will be greatly missed by so many! I had worked in Dr B's office while he worked in Escanaba and he had the biggest heart for his patients. He treated all the Children that he had seen as if they were all his, when we called him regarding one of his patients he was there with in a very short time to care for them- never NO I can not come in. he was always there!! My sympathy to Sherry and the boys and Family - he will be greatly missed! RIP Joe. ~~~ Jeanne Jones- Gladstone, MI"
"Dr. B cared for his patients and their families so well. He never made us feel rushed or that our concerns/questions weren't important. He was very compassionate. He only treated my son a few times when he was in Escanaba, yet, he knew his chart and spoke to him as if he was a friend. He will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathies to his family, friends, and co-workers. The McGraw Family"
"What a wonderful person he was! We (as many) were so shocked! Our deepest sympathies to the family. My three children absolutely loved him. He will be greatly missed. When the kids were home from college we would duck in the hockey box or if we ran into him away from the office we would always stop as he wanted to know how they each were doing. You were the best!! RIP Dr. B. much love from the Etelamaki's"
"My condolences to Dr. Brzezinski's family. Such a sad loss! Our prayers are with you."
"Dr. B was the most caring, loving and dedicated doctor I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. My twins just loved him as did I. I meet Dr. B in the NICU when my twins were born. Born 13 weeks early I had not picked out a pediatrician yet. Dr. B came to the NICU and talked to me about himself, his family and his practice and I knew right away he was the doctor for my children. Living in Escanaba I drove to Marquette so many times with sick kids instead of the walk in. I knew Dr. B would have the right answers. I just can't believe he is gone. RIP Dr. B I will miss you very much."
"Dr. B diagnosed my daughter with juvenile diabetes when she was only 2. We were terrified and he was our saving angel, teaching me everything he could at every visit in Escanaba, helping us to learn to live with this illness. When she was 6, I took her to a specialist in the Detroit area to get her an insulin pump because I couldn't get one in the area. When I returned and made an appointment with him, he just chuckled and rolled with it, learning to manage pediatric pump patients right along with us! He saved her life and so many others.There were some awful times during her late teenage years when she did not take good care of herself and he was a good adviser even then! I visited with him in Marquette sometime in the last couple of years when we met in the hallway of the medical building, letting him know that she was married and had returned to taking good care of herself as they were trying to have a baby. My daughter and her husband welcomed their own son into this world on Dec. 11, 2015 in Green Bay as she was high risk and went into labor nearly 5 weeks early. They came home after 4 days in the NICU and one of the first things my daughter, Halle wanted to do was go to Marquette as soon as it warmed up enough to take that baby on an outing to go see Dr. B and thank him for taking care of her all these years. My other daughter, Kadey was also his patient for many years with recurrent ear infections and surgeries and she is expecting her first child in July. She is the one that contacted me last night when she learned of this loss. They both wanted Dr. B to be their doctor! We missed the chance to see him once more and tell him how treasured he was but can only pray he knows how thankful we all are to him and his amazing care. We will continue to pray for him and his family and are so very saddened by this loss. God Bless you Dr. B and family. You are so very loved and missed by so many! Lori Viau, Halle Marenger and Kadey Hartung"
"Dr. B was my preceptor when I was a medical student and I learned so much from him. He was a wonderful physician to his patients, and an amazing teacher. My prayers and sympathies to his family."
"HE SAVED MY DAUGHTERS LIFE. I WILL NEVER FORGET THAT."
"My deepest sympathy. I worked with Dr. Joe at St. Francis Hospital in Escanaba. I remember the first time he had to appear in court. He came into our department dressed in a suit and asked if we thought he should wear a stethoscope around his neck. It was pretty sweet. He took care of our son, who was diagnosed with Asthma at a young age. Our son called him "Docker Joe," and when we needed an office visit, we would chant, "Goin' to see Docker Joe, doc, doc, doc, Docker Joe." He was a lovely, intelligent man who helped many children (and parents!). Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. "
"Dear Brzezinski family, I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. B took care of my three children for nearly 15 years. Know that thoughts and prayers surround you and are being sent, not only by family and friends, but by people you may never know; he made such a huge impact during his too short time on Earth. I imagine him teaching classes to angels on service, patience, and compassion."
"Thank you for sharing Dr. B. with us. He was an top notch doctor and a great man. Praying for your family."
"My prayers and thoughts are will his family at this time. He was an amazing doctor. My son who is autistic absolutely didn't mind seeing him when we went it and he doesn't do well with doctors. Dr. B knew exactly what to do and helped me anyway he could for ideas and resources for my son. First doctor to ever tell me he was proud of me as a mom. :) God Bless a man who will be missed."
"Joe and I worked together as colleagues for many years. It was always a tremendous comfort to work together as I always knew that my patients baby was in good hands! Such teamwork. His knowledge and ethics were so greatly respected. I enjoyed our many conversations about medicine, family and life's challenges. This world is a better place because of Joe. He will be so missed by so many as he positively touched so many lives! What we all should strive for in our lives. Connie Hedmark"
"Dr. B was an amazing doctor with a wonderful bedside my children were never afraid of going to see Dr. B! My condolences to family and friends he was a great person, thank you for sharing him with us. - The Olson Family"
"I didn't know Dr B as a Dr. I knew him as an athlete, gardener, family man. He had a heart for his patients and for everything he ever did. He did his very best at everything he did. He was kind, understanding, patient. I will miss his gentle soul. Prayers for his entire family and for him. God Bless"
"Dr. B and our son Sam shared a birthday; and Dr. B was at the hospital on their birthday to welcome Sam into the world. We've so enjoyed his compassion, professionalism and fun loving attitude these past 15 years and he will be heartily missed. It was always obvious how much he loved his family and his profession."
"What a sad, sad day! Dr. B has cared for my children for over 16 years and I always knew we were in good hands. When my kids were little, they would put on the Mr. Potato head glasses and a little white Dr. coat and play "Dr. B". They loved, trusted, and respected him. He asked us questions about our lives and got to know our family. He always liked telling about his own boys and sharing events in his life too. He made you feel important and you knew he had your best interest at heart. Thank you to the Brzezinski family for sharing him with all of us. He will be so missed!"
"I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I graduated High School with Joe and considered him a good friend. He truly had a kind soul. Unfortunately, I haven't seen him for a long time, but he will truly be missed. Reading all of the nice comments that his patients have added warms my heart. Rest in Peace. ~ Karol Kallgren Strahl (Class of '81)"
"Dr Joe (as we knew him"
"Dr. Joe was my children's doctor forever, and I have always known that we were blessed to have him in our lives. Reading the many beautiful tributes in this guestbook is proof that our doctor was truly someone special. I remember my son singing "Who Let the Dogs Out" for Dr. Joe at his 3 or 4 year old checkup - it was hilarious and Dr. Joe had the perfect age appropriate response. I have always felt such comfort when I filled in Dr. Joe's name on all the various forms we fill out throughout the years, comfort that Dr. Joe really knew my children and would be there for them. It makes me so sad to think he is no longer a phone call away... Dr. Joe, Sherry, Phillip and Michael we will keep you in our prayers. Love, The Pliska Family (Bob, Maura, Matt and Bridget)"
"Dr Joe (as we knew him in Escanaba) was my son Danny's Dr for many years. When he left Esky we had a going away party for him at Whispering Pines Adult Care Home He cried because he loved the guys so much. I loved him because he not only took care of Danny when he was so sick with pneumonia he took care of me too! He was so dedicated to helping everyone of his patients. He always remembered Danny when he heard I've been working on the rail road song. He will be in our hearts forever and his family will be our prayers. Our sincere sympathy to you."
"Dear Sherry, Michael and Phillip, I wish to extend my sincere condolences to each of you over the tremendous loss of your dear husband and father. He was an unforgettable person of highest inspiration who left eternal and devoted memores during his short life. With sincerest sympathy, Linda Goodmsn"
"Dr B was one of a kind. He always found a way to squeeze our son in to his busy schedule (sometimes seeing him during his lunch break). His bedside manner was unlike any other.....He loved to share with us about his various trips and always asked about our travels, especially Denmark. Sometimes words are just not enough... we will miss you."
"Thoughts and prayers your way Michael , Philip and family. It sounds like your father was a very devoted physician and father with 2 fine young men for sons. Our hearts go out to you and your mother during this difficult time. Sincerely, Colleen Gaffney MSHS"
"Our family has been with Dr.B his entire practice and will be sadly missed. He was such an amazing man and took all the time needed with each patient he saw. Out in public he would remember my son by name and always asked how he was doing and if there was any concerns. Dr.B did not make you feel as though you were a patient but more that you were family."
"My son was in the hospital over a weekend and he was there bright and early Saturday morning . it's hard to find a great doctor but to find one as dedicated and caring as Dr. B you will be hard pressed to find! God bless you !"
"I met Dr. B as a third year medical student in Escanaba. He had just finished residency and we were his first class of medical students. His enthusiasm, dedication and sense of humor made him an excellent teacher and clinician. Like many clinician educators, Joe (how I eventually came to know him) taught by example and then stepped back to ask the learner what they heard, saw, sensed from his clinical questions and choices. Asking young learners to reflect on each aspect of the doctor-patient relationship within a visit took tremendous time and energy, but there was no sense of impatience in his demeanor. He was (and obviously continued to be) driven to pursue excellence: in patient care, teaching and later on as a father. It was our class that awarded him his first teaching award in 1996. I'm pleased to have been a part of that. I also had the privilege to learn from Joe as a resident during the time he spent in Midland. There is much about my own practice which still mirrors the style, vocabulary and compassionate care he helped to teach me. I was deeply saddened to hear of his passing and remember well our animated discussions. As I reflect upon those times now, after teaching for nearly 20 years, I'm struck by the insight and skill he demonstrated as a new clinician educator and what a gift he was to all of his learners. You will be much missed Joe, by those who knew you, and those who never had the privilege."
"Joe and Sherry were our neighbors when we moved to Marquette in 2000. He welcomed us and plowed our driveway many early mornings when we first arrived. We were blessed to have Joe as our neighbor, friend, and our kid's pediatrician. Our hearts are saddened. Prayers of peace and comfort to you Sherry, Michael, and Philip."
"Joe was a wonderful man! I met Sherry first in line with Phillip at Kindergarten. We were friends immediately and Joe became our Pediatrician. If you didn't know, he was proud of his grilled ribs,and they were very good! Joe even ate my hamburgers for dinner the first Friday of Lent : ) We still laugh about our mistake! My daughter Ally would come down with the strangest symptoms on a weekend or Holiday. Joe never hesitated to see her "Come Over" or once she couldn't move and he came to our house! He was so caring and kind! He lived in the woods, but battled with the deer so that he could grow his vegetable garden, just like home. We love this family! Our children have grown up together. Our hearts are so heavy for Sherry, Phillip and Mikey! He Will be MISSED, and we are so sorry! Friends & Neighbors We Will Always Be....Sue, Jim, Bre & Ally Petschke"
"My heart is heavy. Ive been meaning to get this down on paper for quite some time. I was hoping to share my thoughts with Dr. Brzezinski himself. I guess I didnt want to believe that this day would actually come. Reality has been starting to set in over the past few days, and I am realizing what a gaping hole Dr. Brzezinski is leaving in our lives. Its true, he wasnt a personal friend or a family member of ours. Ive never even run into him outside of an office visit. He has walked beside me for the last 12 years as I have found my way as a parent though. Before my daughter was even born, he took the time to meet with me so I could decide if he would be our pediatrician. I remember asking him questions about if he had ever worked with a child that had a cleft lip and palate, and if he would be willing to work with our surgeons and the team at U of M Mott Childrens Hospital. He answered my questions and assured me that he felt confident about caring for my child. Little did I know at the time that these things would be the very least of what he would do for me. My daughter came into this world like a ball of fire. As much as I tried to be prepared, she came with surprises in store and had to be flown to U of M the day she was born. He stopped into my hospital room that day and offered a comforting presence. I knew she would come home to capable hands. I was a new Mom with a baby girl that had surgery before she was even a day old. She was kind of crab cake and had difficulty eating. She suffered from reflux and I felt pressure that she had to get to the 10 pound mark so she would be healthy and ready for her next surgery. What I remember during this time is his calm, reassuring presence. He always asked me how I was feeling. He told me I was doing a great job. He built my confidence visit by visit. He said, I need you to be healthy and happy so that you can be the best Mom you can be to her. I remember asking him for his opinion before we decided to have another baby. Genetics told me that another child would have an even higher chance of having a cleft lip and palate. Once again, Dr. B was able to reassure me, empower me to make my own decision, and also leave the decision for me to make. My son came along a couple of years later with a whole new set of challenges. All along Dr. Brzezinski was there to guide me and empower me. All along, he has told me, I am going to treat your children just like any other child, because that is what they are. Normal, healthy children. It was as if he knew that I longed to hear someone say that. No matter how tired, frazzled, frustrated, or scared I was going into a visit, I left feeling better. We hear so many stories of doctors rushing in and out of appointments, not taking the time to talk to patients, but that was never the case with Dr. B. I clearly remember apologizing to him and saying, Im sorry, I just have two more quick questions. as I held on to my list. His exact words were, I find it amusing that you would think that my time is more valuable than yours. Thats how he always was. He took time to talk to me and my children, to hear my concerns, answer my questions, acknowledge my frustrations, and celebrate our successes. The day he told me he was sick, he once again took the time to share this personally. He said, I have something really hard to talk to you about. Weve been through a lot of Well Child Checks, and asthma attacks, and ear infections, and I hope we get to have many more. Oh how I wanted to believe that we would. But here we are only months later, and there will be no more Well Child Checks with our beloved Dr. B. I have been trying to figure out why I am struggling so much these last few days, and I came to the realization that I did not just lose our pediatrician. I lost a guide, a mentor, a coach. The thought of finding a new doctor, changing my sons asthma medicine, and anticipating the next surgery strikes a feeling of panic in my heart. The thought struck me as my husband and I discussed it the other day, who would I usually go to for help and guidance with these things? Well, Dr. B, of course! How lucky we were to have him in our lives for the time that we did. What an impact he made on me, which impacted my children. When I imagine how many families are out there feeling the same way, I realize how huge and far and wide his impact is, and in that way he is still here among us. I know that as I continue on my parenting journey, I will always carry him with me. Sincerely, Gail, Dan, Adrian and Reid Brazeau"
"Dr. B was literally a lifesaver to our family. He took on my medically complex child no questions asked. He was a support to us through so many difficult times. He knew how hard it is to raise a child with special needs, and took his job seriously. We all relied on him so much and he will be so greatly missed. Sherry and sons, our prayers are with you. I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you right now. You have a whole community behind you, and a ton of prayers. Thank you for sharing such a great man with us."
"Rest well Dr. B. my "favorite pediatrician!" I will always treasure the good times we had in the NICU and on FBC. We had many good conversations and laughs over the years. Thank you for being a great Teacher and Doctor but more importantly a great friend. I will never forget the love and devotion you had for all your patients and your job. You are and always will be missed!"
"It was with great sadness that we learned of Dr. B's passing today. He got our family through so much... he was brilliant as a doctor and always made us feel confident in his care. We will miss the great chats we had as he was always so interested in what the kids were doing as they grew. Sherry, Phillip and Michael, sending our love, and holding you close to our hearts and in our prayers."
"Dr. Brzezinski was a wonderful pediatrician for both of my children. He will be deeply missed! My prayers are with his family."
"Our family will deeply miss Dr. B. It can be difficult to put the care of a child in someone else's hands, but we trusted him completely with our daughter. She will miss his opening line to every appointment, "Violet! You're turning violet, Violet!" And we would laugh every time, even before she knew what he meant. Our thoughts are with his family. Thank you for sharing him with us."
"There are no words~"
"Our thoughts are with your family. So sorry for your loss. Dr. B was an amazing man and doctor and my family and I greatly appreciate everything he has done. Rest in peace Dr. B."
"I'm not even sure where to begin. We loved Dr. B. so very much. He was our daughter's pediatrician from the start. He will be greatly missed but remain, forever in our hearts. Dr. B. truly cared for his patients, we will never be able to find a Dr. to fill his shoes. Sending our love and prayers to his family. May they find peace and comfort now and in the days ahead."
"So very sad to hear of this! Dr. B. was a one of a kind man and my kids were lucky enough to be cared for by him throughout the years! Thoughts and prayers to his family."
"I can't begin to express my sympathy! I was so surprised to hear of Joe's passing. I had no idea he was ill. I want you to know how blessed I feel to have known him as well as you, Sherry, Phillip and Michael. I love you all very much! I have such fond memories of your family during my years at Vandenboom in which the boys were students there. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know you are in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless! Mary Butorac"
"Dr. B was a very dedicated and caring doctor. My children loved him. My daughter drew him a picture and gave it to him but not before asking him "what's up doc" he laughed and said Angelica I just love you. He would see me and ask how is My Alger doing. He knew his patients names outside the office. RIP DR. B YOU WILL BE MSSED"
"Dr. Brzezinski was a great doctor and an amazing man. Prayers and strength to everyone."
"I am very sorry to hear of Dr B's passing. I will truly miss him as a pediatrician. My husband said you can always find another pediatrician, but you can't find another Dr B. He has gotten us through some tough times with both our kids. I trusted him and his advice. He helped name our daughter. We were undecided and when he came in to see me after seeing her in the NICU, he said that he was partial to the name Sherry, but that she looked like a Sophia, so Sophia it was. One other time, we were in Marquette on a non related appointment and he heard my sons voice and came running around the corner. He also told my son that he has the "stay away from my daughter" type of smile. I will truly miss that "know the patient" personality that he had. My kids absolutely loved him! Prayers to the Brzezinski family during this difficult time. RIP Dr B!!!!! "
"We are so sorry to hear about your loss. This is a sad day for Marquette. My children will miss Dr. Brzezinski's smile and comfort next time they are not feeling well. They were so fortunate to have been under Dr. B's care. We will miss him and all that he did for our children and community. Prayers to the family and friends of Dr. B."
"I recently sent Dr. B a card that said "you are not like family, you are family." The special care he gave to my two youngest children was above and beyond. They loved him. We will always be greatful for his dedication and compassion. He was one in a million. We will miss you!"
"Dr. B. has taken care of my children from the day they were born. My daughter will turn 17 in March. He was a very brilliant doctor and so very caring. I will never forget when he called us on a Friday evening to tell us that a test came back and there was nothing to worry about. He didn't want us to worry all weekend. He was certainly one of a kind. My heart breaks for all who loved him. He was very proud of his family as well. He was always excited to talk about upcoming vacations and his boys accomplishments. He will be missed so much!"
"16 years ago when our son was born Dr. B took over as his physician when Dr. Brar left the practice. Dr.B was so kind, gentle & understanding with our son & with us as first time parents. A beautiful legacy he has left behind in the many lives of the children he cared for in so many communities. He set his illness aside & continued to care for so many families. "Brzezinski pediatric specialists" is how we referred to his office as it seemed he was always there. Thank you Dr.B & many many caring thoughts to his family."
"Thank you Sherry, Michael and Phillip for sharing your husband and father with us all these years. He was a gift to his patients and helped save the life of both my daughter and granddaughter. Our prayers are with you all for healing and comfort during this time."
"This man is among one of the best, not only as a physician but also a community member. He has been my triplets doctor since they were discharged from the NICU 10 years ago. He was caring, loving, personable and always made time for his patients and their parents. You will be missed Dr. B, thank you for everything you have done. Prayers and strength to the family in this time of sorrow."
"Dr. "B" was my son Fred's doctor and SpaghettiO's brother. He told Fred every time we saw him that he was one of his favorite patients. Having a child with conditional asthma at a young age had us in his office a lot. I trusted his care and he listened to me as the parent. There will never be another Dr. "B". My heart is breaking knowing we will never see his smile again. Or banter about our favorite Michigan team. Fred would make a point of wearing his Michigan clothes on the day he had an appointment just to tease him. And Dr. "B" would make a point of telling him his illness of the day was caused by the blue and gold clothing he was wearing. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. RIP Dr "B" much love, Lisa and Fred"
"Our hearts are very heavy .... Dr B saved my sons life and we have sen him every 3-6weeks for the past 11 years. He will be missed and I AM FOREVER GRATEFUL ....this picture was taken oct 2004 after my son woke up from his coma ....Dr B asked how he was feeling. He gave him a thumbs up."
"Sherry, Phillip, Michael and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how badly we feel. Dr. B was always there for our family whenever we needed him, taking care of our kids for almost 17 years. Our kids grew up with him and he watched our kids grow up, always interested in how each one was doing. He loved to share stories about his boys. He will be greatly missed and it won't be the same without him. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Karen, Tom, Matt, Adam and Amanda Anderson"
"What is amazing to me, a mother of three children that have been in the care of Dr. B for the past ten years, is that there is a similar theme in all of these messages. Dr. B had the ability to make each child/family feel as though they were his "top" priority. He brought his care to a level that surpasses the typical patient/Doctor relationship...he had the ability to transcend a professional relationship to a family. You never had to doubt his decisions or recommendations because you knew he was combining his golden heart with his superior pediatric intelligence. I am so thankful for the 10 years my children were in his care through the Marquette and Escanaba offices. My family will be forever greatful for his service to our children and our community. Rest well Dr. B! Prayers to all that loved him, especially his family."
"We are so very sorry for your loss. Dr. Brzezinski was truly one of a kind. He went out of his way to help in any way he could. He always had my children smiling. He will truly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers will be with your family and friends."
"Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow for your family's loss, Dr. Brzezinski was such an amazing Doctor and great man. All of our children were in his care from the time they were born and we could never have asked for a more caring and capable provider. The joy he had for his work was clear anytime you were in his presence and Werner, Adelle, and Annette absolutely adored him (I even remember our son telling him at about age 4 that he wanted to be a pediatrician just like him). Thank you Sherry, Phillip, and Michael for sharing this wonderful man with all of us, we were so blessed to have had him in our and our children's lives. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and may you find strength and comfort in your warm memories. Dr. B, you will forever have a place in the hearts of the Seawright family!"
"Dr. B took over my oldest daughters care when she was 3 months old and was there every step with our second daughter. He stopped in my room when I was being induced and told me "you know this one won't come out in 3 hrs, I bet she refuses" and that she did, 15 hrs of labor. He came in to take care of her and was like, I am so sorry :) We all just laughed. He will be missed, he was a wonderful doctor. RIP Doc :("
"So sorry to hear of Dr Brzezinski passing I had the pleasure of working with him for many years at MGH. Also he was my grandsons pediatrician for the first few months. My thoughts are with his family RIP DR B"
"Three and a half years I met Dr. Brzezinski at 11pm on a Monday night with a very very sick one and a half year old named Emmett! We were placed into a room where respiratory arrived within 5 minutes, the ER Doctor right away and dr. B within 10 minutes (not sure how he got there so quickly) with his black medical bag! He was like an angel walking into our ER room, who gave me the assurance, and a hug that my baby was going to be okay. Let's forward to this past fall, after he was diagnosed with cancer, started chemotherapy, and just happened to be on call. It was late Friday night and he told me to come over to the office. Emmett was very sick again and he spent about an hour and a half that evening giving him breathing treatments, and finally offering me a choice of hospitalizing or taking him home. After much languish I chose to take him home, where Dr. B called us three times that evening to make sure Emmett was okay, saw us in his office the next day on top of calling twice and calling once again Sunday. Dr. B wasn't our pediatrician, but treated our son like he was the most special person in his practice! He did all this I order to keep our five year old boy home; which, I know, as a nurse, is a rarity in the medical field! He was one of a kind, smart and caring doctor who I trusted, without a doubt, with the care of my children. I am happy that I had the chance to see him again from our initial hospitalization to thank him, albeit it would have been nice under different circumstances. I'm so sorry for your loss, and the loss to our community. I will always regard him as our angel, shining star that gave me comfort and reassurance that my child was going to be okay. God bless, and I will keep your family in our prayers. Sincerely, Rachel and Phil Hutter (Holden, Emmett and Natasha)"
"To Dr. B's family and loved ones may these days of grief and sorrow be filled with many loving memories and joyful moments as a celebration of his life and accomplished career. From Susan's new found family at McLaren Lapeer our sympathy and prayers are with you during this time. Jen F Tim Pam Jeff Tana Andrea Betsy Ashley Jen P Jen C"
"Thank you to Dr B. First for being a kind and wise mentor during my medical education. And more importantly, for being my daughter's pediatrician and knowing exactly what to say to my wife and I to give us confidence during our first week of parenthood. We are forever grateful for his honest and true care."
"I learned tonight of Dr. B's passing... been crying most of the evening He was such a kind sweet soft spoken man with the sweetest smile and the biggest heart. Lindsay, my daughter, has been going to him since she was a baby She even named one on her stuffed dinosaur animal after him. Im so very heartbroken. .. Dr. Brezinski you touched so many hearts. You are one of a kind and irreplaceable and will be missed so incredibly much. Prayers for the Brezinski family!"
"Dr B. cared for my three children for 14 years after he arrived in Marquette and has cared for my two grand daughters over the past 3 years. He was such a kind, caring and dedicated doctor. I remember him always being positive with my children, praising and instructing them at every level of development. My grand daughters have been fortunate to receive the same care from Dr. B. He didn't hesitate for a minute to agree to care for our youngest granddaughter who was born prematurely this year with a rare genetic disorder. He expertly coordinated care with Univ. of MI Hospital as well as a myriad of other agencies, and got us all through a scary, difficult few months, even after he became ill. We will definitely miss his always genuine, kind and calm demeanor and expertise. Heartfelt sympathies and peace to his family."
"I met Dr. B while working as a nurse in Escanaba. He was also my children's pediatrician. My daughter could not say his name so she lovingly referred to him as "my boy Dr." After a few years we moved to Marquette. He was a pleasure to work with as a nurse, always taking time to teach others. One day I saw his picture in the Mining Journal announcing his coming to Marquette! I showed this to my daughter who excitedly yelled, "My Boy Dr.!" We were so happy to have him back in our lives. Having children with several special needs/medical issues, it was always very comforting to turn to his vast knowledge and kind heart. He always went the extra mile. We will forever love our "Boy Dr.""
"We are so sorry to hear of Dr. Brzezinski's passing. Since the birth of our oldest son, (who's now almost 15 yrs. old), he has been the Pediatrician to all 4 of our children from each day of their birth. He was more than a doctor, he was someone who truly cared about our family and children. Our sympathies and prayers for his wife and boys. We are truly saddened, as this is a great loss for our community, and for all who were blessed to know him."
"Sherry, I didn't know. I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was a kind and gentle man as well as a great doctor. I remember setting you two up and so glad it went in the direction it did and I was able to be part of your wedding! You and your boys have my love and prayers. God bless you and keep you and show his great face upon you. Love you!"
"So so Sad....We loved you Dr. B! Thank you for your stellar care of our kiddos and for helping us out as new parents. We loved your patience, sense of humor, and how you lavished us richly with your knowledge, trust, and reassurance. I especially loved how you always asked us if we had any other questions without us feeling rushed during appointments. We are forever grateful that we were blessed with you as our first pediatrician. God bless your family."
"So very sorry to see that Dr. B is gone. As with so many others, we didn't know he was sick. We first met Dr. B when he joined the practice in 1998 and took over the care of our son Sam, who has spinal muscular atrophy. He had never heard of this before, but he did his homework and did an amazing job taking care of him, saving his life numerous times. He was there whenever you needed him, even giving us his personal phone number if we needed anything when Sam had his make-a-wish trip to Alaska. He always waited for the day that Sam would actually talk to him to show that he really did have a voice. Eventually that day did come. When Sam turned 18, we asked who he would recommend to take over his care, as Sam was now an adult and he said he would continue taking care of him if we liked, as he had older patients before. We were very relieved, knowing we didn't have to find someone new and have to go through all of Sam's history. He was a wonderful doctor and friend and we will miss him greatly."
"Dr B. Was our Doctor from when my children were babies. I was a helicopter mom that he always found a way to calm me down. He would always says " lily my lily""how's miss lily today? ". My daughters loved him and He always gave me a sense of comfort knowing I was in the best care and he would know what to do. My entire family will miss him. My heart is deeply sadden. At my lowest point when my daughter was very sick I asked him if he would be there to help me through this parenting thing and he said yes. He said being a doctor was his life. When he told us he was sick I never wanted to believe it. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. He will be truly missed and never forgotten."
"Dr B was my son's doctor for 4 yrs.....and it was Dr B that really helped us come to grips/accept all our son's medical conditions. Dr B was always there for his patients and their parents whenever they had a question or concern. He always made time for them no matter what. He was a caring doctor who truly cared about all of his patients and their families!!"
"While I never had the pleasure of meeting Dr. B, I have the pleasure of working with his sister, Susan. I am in awe of these wonderful stories. I will keep the family in my thoughts and prayers."
"Dr. Brzezinski was a kind and caring pediatrician whose dedication for his profession and patients was unsurpassed. I had the pleasure of working with him on the Family Birthing Center and in NICU where he would pop in with a smile just to say hi and see how all the babies were doing, even though they technically weren't his patients. He will be greatly missed. My prayers, thoughts and condolences go to his wife, children and family. May he now RIP."
"What an amazing guy!...Such a caring compassionate guy!"
"I remember choosing Dr. B as my first born's pediatrician for his credentials as much for his calm and engaged demeanor. As a single mother then, he always had enough time to encourage me, talk and engage with my son and ensure together as mother and healthcare provider we were doing our best to care for my son. He was probably one of the first people who told me I was a wonderful mother, and I believed it. Those words have stayed with me into my mothering journey and I will always be grateful for them. He had a gift and I pray that his family is supported by their community as he supported it during his lifetime, patiently and with intense care."
"Dr. B was a magnificent mentor and teacher. He has touched the lives of many patients and current doctors alike. His compassion and caring were hallmarks."
"As a former administrator at MGMG, I worked frequently with Joe and found him driven, challenging, extremely bright and ultimately completely and passionately committed to improving the care of patients. He made the Marquette community better and stronger. He made his practice and partners better and stronger. He made me better and stronger. His life journey may have been too short, but over his time he made the most of his ability to contribute to his community, his practice and his family. Thank you, Dr. Brzezinski."