"Ben was my friend for several years before I moved back to Illinois in the summer of 2000. I have no idea how we became friends. I was kind of a dorky kid who played basketball and he was a really talented aggressive skater. It?s been 21 years since I?ve seen him, but I remember him as unapologetically himself. His mind was constantly onto the next joke. But I think he loved to make people laugh - especially the ladies! In a lot of ways, he made me a little bit ?cooler.? I wish I made a positive impact on him, but I don?t really know if that?s true. He was a good friend, and I constantly searched for him online in my early-mid 20s. I found his obituary about 5 years ago. I was shocked, and I didn?t notice these tributes. If I was to say anything to his parents and brother besides the obvious fact that I am sorry they lost him too early... I just would say, he made my life better for the time I knew him. And he made me a little funnier. I am no great success story, but I believe my view of life was made better by knowing him. I would probably take things way too seriously. And I would never have seen (in-person) a skinny blonde-headed kid jump over a lunch table in the middle of the day. Ben wasn?t the most book-smart person I ever knew, but socially, he had me beat by miles. He knew how to get his point across and make friends. He also had little interest in the people he knew judged him unfairly - and he kept his distance. He also defended me a few times. And in the times he put his foot in his mouth, his guttural laugh and quick wit always won him points. I do still miss him. "
In loving memory of
Benjamin Carter Cagle
August 4, 1984 - October 8, 2006
Benjamin Carter Cagle, age 22, of Austin died Sunday, October 8, 2006. He was bright, funny and generous and will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. He loved cycling, rollerblading, science fiction and fantasy, anime, manga and competing in games from chess to WarHammer 40K.Benjamin worked as a waiter and software tester. He attended Westlake High School and graduated from high school at American Youthworks. He had also taken classes at Austin Community College and was studying computer programming with his brother.He was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Joe Harden Bailey; paternal grandfather, Clyde Sidney Cagle and paternal grandmother, Hazel Edwards Cagle.Survivors are his father, Anthony Cagle of San Francisco, CA; mother, Anne Bailey Cagle of Austin; brother, Stephen Christopher Cagle of Rochester, NY & Austin, TX; grandmother, Elizabeth Betty Lloyd DeBrohun Bailey of Denton, TX; uncle, Glen Sidney Cagle of Celeste, TX and aunt, Elizabeth Beth Lloyd Bailey of Atlanta, GA. The family will receive friends from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m., Thursday, October 12, 2006 at Harrell Funeral Home, Austin.Funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m., Thursday, October 12, 2006 at Harrell Funeral Home Chapel, Austin.Guest book and obituary available online at harrellfuneralhomes.com 4435 Frontier Trail Austin, TX 78745
Tributes
"Thinking of Ben today & missing him. I was heart broken learning of his passing back in 2006, but lived in another town & learned after the fact so missed any memorials... I remember the last few times I saw him at ACC, where we had a yoga class together. For whatever reason, I have memory seared into my brain of seeing him in the hallway in middle school as he sat at a desk & smiled up at me when we said hi. Benjamin Cagle was a sweet and smart person and I think of him regularly. I found this page while searching for a picture of him, I wish I could see his face... "
"Anthony, I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Benjamin. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Marisa"
"Anthony, I was shocked to learn about the untimely demise of Benjamin. My deepest condolences. Everybody at ValueLabs will pray that God gives you and your family the strength to get over this tragedy quickly. Best regards, Ram"
"I am so sorry to hear about Benjamin. I am thinking about you all and send my condolences during this awful time. Know that you have the love and support of your friends and family. Elise"
"Anthony, Anne, and Stephen - We were so so sorry to hear of the loss of Benjamin. Our hearts are with you during this very difficult time. Shannon Callaway and Phil Haile"
"Anthony, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Christine"
"Anthony - it was such a horrible shock for us to hear what had happened to Ben. Words cannot convey our sadness for your loss. All we can say is that we're thankful to have spent time with him. Adrienne, in her usual way, liked to poke and prod him around the edges to see what she'd come up with, and she found Ben full of heart, idealistic but very tolerant, and a genuinely nice person. We will both miss Ben very much. Steve and Adrienne"
"Anthony - it was such a horrible shock for us to hear what had happened to Ben. Words cannot convey our sadness for your loss. All we can say is that we're thankful to have spent time with him. Adrienne, in her usual way, liked to poke and prod him around the edges to see what she'd come up with, and she found Ben full of heart, idealistic but very tolerant, and a genuinely nice person. We will both miss Ben very much. Steve and Adrienne"
"We are so sorry for your loss. We have all of you in our prayers. Sincerely Rita Hammack Jason, Julie, Jamie, Jeff, Josh"
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you Anthony and your family at this very difficult time. Please know that you are in our hearts in the days to come. Meg & Steve Davidson and family"
"Anne, Anthony, and Stephen--Our deep symnpathy is with you.--Joe and Mickey"
"We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We pray that God will comfort you in your grief. Having lost two children of our own we feel your pain. Please accept our deepest sympathy."
"Our family is so shocked and saddened by Ben's death. It's been years since we had seen him or the family but we have fond memories of times when the dads, Anthony and Jim, had regular outings with the two boys, Ben and Elliott. We still talk about the fun they had bowling and hanging out together. I remember Ben's smile and his polite, good nature as the boys on the street rode bikes and jumped on our trampoline. We will miss him. We are praying for you."
"My families thoughts are with you and yours during this sad time."
"Anthony- My deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. -The Garrisons"
"Words could never convey how sorry I am for your loss. Know that my thoughts are with you and your family."
"We are so sorry for your loss of Benjamin. I know you have many wonderful memories of him, and hopefully those will provide some comfort in this difficult time. I remember meeting him for the first time when he was about 14 and he barely said two words to me - who would have thought we'd end up working together! I was always so impressed with how seriously he took his job and how much he wanted to do well. We will miss him. Our thoughts are with you always. Tracy, Ray and Boden"
"Dear Ann, I'm so sorry for your lost, Your in my thoughts. My best Tish"
"Anthony, It was such a sad shock to hear, through Adrienne, that you suddenly lost your young son, Ben. I know nothing said can convey enough condolence for your loss. Chinese have a traditional saying that lists the death of a child to the eldly parents as one of the three most profound grieves in human life. Patty and I wanted to let you know that we share your grief. Jingyu & Patty"
"Anthony - there are simply no words to express my sadness and sympathy on the loss of your son, Benjamin. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Holly"
"Ann, I am so very sorry for your loss. Judy Gros"
"Anthony, Anne, and Stephan, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our girls, Stephan and Benjamin had some fun times at Aunt Cindy's. We know the Lord will be your help and comfort. May the special memories of Benjamin be a comfort to you. Love, The Creiders Dan, Beth, Melissa, Danielle"
"Anthony - Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are keeping you all close in our hearts during this difficult time. All our love, The Woznica Family"
"Anthony, Ann and Stephen, Our prayers are with you during this time. May God bless you with all the wonderful memories of Benjamin and give you peace. Love Janice,Dennis Melcher"