"This came as a shock to me. She was such a great lady. I loved her like a mother and a sister. We went different directions in our lives but really enjoyed the time a I had with her at St. Mary's. May God pour his strength and love out to her entire family. She will be dearly missed."
In loving memory of
Carolyn Stupasky
February 14, 2018
Carolyn Lucille (Starrett) Feld Stupasky made her journey to heaven to be with her Eternal Valentine her Lord and Savior on February 14, 2018 at 8:40 am at Blessing Hospital in Quincy, Illinois, surrounded by her two daughters. She was extremely lucky in love with her sweet husband Paul (Shorty) Stupasky who stayed hand in hand by her side.
Carolyn was born prematurely on June 19, 1936 at Levering Hospital in Hannibal, MO. She was the daughter of Lucille E. (Turner) & Thomas C. Starrett. She weighed a mere 3lbs 3oz. That was the start of her fighting spirit for her entire life. Her only sibling was also her forever friend a sister Beverly (Starrett) Power. Many adventurous memories were made by these two while being raised on the family farm in Shelby County, Missouri. They remained close in their adult life. Carolyn went to grade school in a one room school house that she walked to everyday and then went to high school at Hunnewell High in Hunnewell, MO. She later moved to Quincy and worked at Motorola for a few years and then decided to attend Quincy Beauty Academy where she became a cosmetologist. She was extremely talented in this field and made many friends. Her adventurous spirit led her to many jobs that she excelled at. Her most favorite job was being a secretary for Monsignor Mike Kuse at Blessed Sacrament. Upon her retirement from there she proceeded to be a driver for Knapheide Manufacturing.
In 1958 Carolyn wed Gilbert E. Feld Sr. they together raised three children. Brenda S. (George) Crawford, Laura J. (Mark) Goehl, Gilbert E. (Susan (Michael Dobson) Feld Jr., in Quincy IL. Her children were blessed to call her Mother and learned from her to Love the Lord even in trying times. She battled and won the fight against Hodgkin's Lymphoma and Lung Cancer in 1975-77 all this with the Lord by her side. Her son Gil preceded her in death in 2010 and her faith was demonstrated again. Her Grandchildren made sure to share their favorite memories over this last few weeks. Their devotion to her was evident and she relished every minute. Grandchildren included Keith (Amy) Crawford, Kristie (Shannon) Falb, Kara (Josh) Puterbaugh, Kayla (Jason) Carpenter, Kendyl (Philip) Armistead, Jennifer (Jason) Hermann, Alaina (Todd) Wagner, Adam (Joan) Goehl. Great Grandchildren- Zachary, Nicholas, Abigail and Zoe Crawford, Christopher Carmitchel & his partner Sarah Johnson, Carver Carmitchel, Allen, Emma, and Jake Puterbaugh, Phinley Jean Armistead, Baby Carpenter due in June (hopefully June 19th Carolyn's birthday). Jaxson & Jett Paul Hermann, Azra & T.J. Wagner, Landon & Evelyn Goehl. Great Great-Grandchild- Cayden Carmitchel.
On October 2, 1998 Carolyn married Paul (Shorty) Stupasky. He was a blessing to her life in many ways. This union brought to her three-additional step-children. Keith (Susan) Stupasky, Tina Stupasky & her husband Brian Lessley, Curtis Stupasky, Kelly (Amy) Stupasky. Grandchildren-Michael Stupasky & his partner Andrea, Brian (Evelyn) Stupasky, John (Crystal) Stupasky, Carmen & Ani Lessley, Haley, Hannah and Willow Stupasky. Great grandchildren-Curtis, Tyson, Emma, and Victoria Stupasky.
Paul (Shorty) & Carolyn would have celebrated 20 years married in October 2018. They were very devoted to each other and shared memorable trips. Some of their destinations included- Prague-Czech-Republic, Austria, Alaska, Oregon and Sun Valley, Idaho, where they listened to their favorite music Dixieland Jazz Festival. They were animal lovers and rescued their current dog Zelda from the Quincy Humane Society.
Carolyn was a member at St. Anthony's Church. She was a member of multiple organizations including the Poor Handmaids of Jesus Christ, The Elks and the Knights of Columbus. She was actively involved with Cursillo, Tech 99 and Quest.
She is survived by the afore mentioned and multiple Nieces, Nephews, Cousins. She was preceded in death by her parents, a sister and her son.
Services: 9:30 am prayers at Hansen-Spear Funeral Home followed by a 10:00 am funeral mass Wednesday, February 21, 2018 at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church, with Father Tom Donovan officiating.
Burial: Greenmount Cemetery, Quincy, Illinois
Visitation: 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm, Tuesday February 20, 2018 at Hansen-Spear Funeral Home
Memorials: Quincy Humane Society or the Quincy K-9 Connection
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Tributes
"We where saddened to hear of Carolyn?s passing . Our fond memories go way back to days with The Ladies of the Blue Knights. She was a sweet soul & always so kind . On behalf of her old friends from the LBK may we express our sympathy to the family . It is always so hard to have to say ?Good Bye? May she Rest In Peace ."
"Brenda, ,my good friend from our high school days. So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful obituary. She was a sweet mom. Remember the good times until you meet again she is at peace in her new heavenly home."
"Laura, so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was such a nice lady. May God grant you and your family comfort and peace during your time of loss and sorrow."
"Laura so sorry for your loss, but god has her by the hand and they are rejoicing gods love"
"My deepest sympathy to all of family of my Aunt Carolyn! She was loved by many and will be missed! Laura and Brenda, I will always remember going to your mom's house after visiting Grandma Feld up the street!"
"Dear Paul and family, I was so sorry to hear about Carolyn's death. She was a faithful Poor Handmaid Associate. I also have good memories of her as secretary of St. Mary's Parish while I ministered there. Besides that she was always willing to cut my hair. May each of you be wrapped in the arms of God's love and consolation at this time. Sorry I cannot join you for the services, I will be there in spirit."
"I was saddened to hear of your families loss. I spent many enjoyable times with Carolyn at the South Side Boat Club several years back. She was a pure joy to be around. I know the thoughts and prayers of many are with you in your time of sorrow."
"Condolences to Paul and all of his family. So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for you all."
"I'm so sorry for your loss. Yes she is in a better place. No more pain."
"Dana sends her prayers and will miss Aunt Carolyn."
"I remember Carolyn when she was a parent helper at St. Mary's School, as Gilbert Jr. was in my class. What a nice lady. Thinking of you Laura, and all the family."
"MY deepest Sympathies to the Feld and Stupasky's family. I remember Carolyn from when I was teenager and her Daughter Brenda and I were best of friends. What a sweet Lady!"
"To the Feld & Stupasky's entire families our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time."