In loving memory of

Wesley E Etheridge
September 11, 1945 - October 21, 2016

Wesley E. Etheridge, 71, of Newhall, passed away on Friday, October 21, 2016 at the Virginia Gay Nursing and Rehab in Vinton, Iowa surrounded by his loving family.



A Celebration of Life will be held Thursday October 27th from 4 pm-8 pm at 310 A Ave, Newhall IA 52315. Please join the family in remembrance and celebration.

Tributes

Patricia Moe wrote on Oct 24, 2016:

"To all the Etheridge family, we send our deepest prayers for comfort. Wes was a very special, loving person. I remember being able to visit them for a couple weeks at a time. What fun. De-tassel corn, playing cards, being with my nieces. I have been blessed to have him part of my life. I know my folks were surprised and appreciated the letters he wrote to them. He will be missed, but never lost. He will always be in our hearts. Lots and Lots of hugs Steve & Patricia"

Kris Etheridge wrote on Oct 24, 2016:

"I imagine that if you talked to everyone who knew Wes you would get some of the same remembrances. He was constant in his beliefs, his love of family and friends and his never ending love to travel and his need to experience new adventures. We lost count of how many times he moved, but really, does it matter? He lived life on his terms and in his own way. He loved a good debate and was a good friend to many, a good husband, a good father. I valued his opinions and asked his advice on more than one occasion. We shared a love of music, especially old time rock and roll. Every time I would message him, I would include a line of a song from the 60s or 70s, something that I was feeling or experiencing at the time and he always knew the song and also knew what to say to me. Perhaps we didnt know each as well as we could have, as he was always rushing off to a new place and Don and I were pretty much stationary, but I knew he was someone you could count on, someone who would not judge, someone you could trust, and someone who would always be there for us if needed. Well, sadly he isnt here for us now, but thanks Wes for all the years that you were. My deepest sympathies to his kids, grand-kids and his dear wife Eileen. Kris"

DON Etheridge wrote on Oct 24, 2016:

"When Wes and I were in school together, he, the Class of 64 and I 65, I seldom needed reference books. I would just ask Wes. Wes would shock teachers by challenging their answers on tests, etc. This did not always bode well for me. Some teachers though they were going to have to face another Albert Einstein. They soon learned my interests were in different directions from Wess. We would talk of our goals and such in life after L.H.S. Enough of them did happen, so we both had good lives. Ill see you on the other side, Wes. Love to all. Don"

Britney Perschek wrote on Oct 24, 2016:

"My first memory of Wesley was when Benny was in my belly. I remember Bud Perschek my father in law telling me he had a good friend of many many years who just moved into town coming over for dinner. Later that night comes in a tall, loud voiced, mountain of a man that at first took me off guard--And then he started talking. He was so funny (even when he purposely tried to hard) and genuine and kind. His personality was like nobody I had met before and that first day him and his wife Eileen had a special place in my heart I considered family. Every time they moved, (which was more than a few times lol :)) I would tell myself we needed to see them before They go but even if we didn't I'm sure we will see them soon. I wish I would have given Wes a big hug the last time i saw him this summer but I can live comforted knowing he is in a better place an the pain that he must have felt those last days are gone. Truly a irreplaceable person that I can't wait to tell my kids about one day. Love, Britney"

Janet Perschek wrote on Oct 23, 2016:

"Love you Wes and miss you. In all the years I have known you I always knew if I ever needed help you would be there for me. Thanks for calling me 'kid' and for being Bud's best friend and cohort in many escapades. My thoughts and prayers (yes Wes prayers) are with Eileen and all of Wes's family."

Bud Perschek wrote on Oct 23, 2016:

"It is hard to share just one memory that I have had with Wes. We were best friends for over 45 years and the longer we knew each other the more memories we created and the more memories we laughed about for so many years. I do know that he is and will be deeply missed by me and so many others. I was able to write a song that encapsulated many of the memories and events we had shared. I am happy that he was able to listen to it before he died. And the legend lives on. If I am able to share Wes' Song, here is the link. https://soundcloud.com/bud-perschek/meet-me-at-the-tic-toc Love Ya Man Your Old Friend Bud"

Eileen Etheridge wrote on Oct 23, 2016:

"Wesley was a incredible husband,father , grandfather and friend. He was born in Chicago.But loved the Pacific North West.He had such a passion for the sea. We would go crabbing ,fishing we had so much fun. He loved the adventures life would bring him.I called him my gyspy rover. Wes was well loved by his family, friends and colleagues.. He was the most kind-hearted I ever met. I feel like when Wes and I met we were meant to be together and I am so thankful that we did . There is not a day gone by that I have not cherished and loved him with every once of my being. I will never forget the wonderful times we had. He was supportive loving husband. I will miss him so much. His memory will live in all our hearts . Wes you were the best husband ,I love you so much."

Sue Jensen wrote on Oct 23, 2016:

"My first memory of Wesley (we called him Wesley when he was a kid), was seeing this tiny human at the age of around 10 days old. I remember this because I got a talking to for almost tipping over the bassinet to get a better view of him. The next trip to Grandma Martha's resulted in yet another tiny human in the bassinet a few years later but that is a story for another time. He was my brother, my friend, my sounding post, my grammar police, and all around great guy. I will miss him with all my heart and still ask this question when I have a problem, 'how would Wes handle this'?. Loved you so much brother, until we meet again."

Patricia Edmonds wrote on Oct 23, 2016:

"Celebration of Life will be held Thursday October 27th from 4 pm-8 pm at 310 A Ave Newhall IA 52315.Please join the family in remembrance and celebration."